Interpersonal Flashcards
Interpersonal
Two or more persons interacting with each other
Social Spaces
are the various contexts of our interpersonal encounters
Social Norms
In our interpersonal spaces, acknowledging each other, usually by greetings (for example, good morning; good afternoon) is perhaps the most basic way of establishing our human connection
Interpersonal Communication
the quality of contact that emerges between people whenever they are able to highlight in their interaction aspects of what make them human
Quantitative -Dyadic
the “danger” of thinking about communication as quantitative is that we may operate in impersonal rather than person ways with each other.
Qualitative
people treat each other as unique human beings” regardless of the context of interaction.
Uniqueness
social rules are tailored in the interaction to establish a “personal” connection with each other.
Irreplaceability
because our relationship with a person is unique, he/she cannot be replaced. No one has the exact combination of experiences, history, qualities, skills, abilities etc, as another person.
Interdependence
at the most basic level, the fate of partners in interpersonal relationship is connected. Eg., our moods often change to match the mood of the person with whom we are interacting (emotional contagion)
Disclosure
the degree of information we are willing to reveal about ourselves to another person tells a lot about the quality of interaction/ relationship. For example, it may not be normal/customary to reveal very personal details about one’s self to a stranger, however, it is possible to establish a strong qualitative connection with a stranger in a fleeting encounter in which a person feels ‘comfortable’ to disclose. As noted before, fleeting encounters can potentially have a lasting impact on individuals. Such a behavior however, may be influenced by one’s communication needs in the moment.
Intrinsic rewards
This speaks to the extent to which the interaction/relationship offers a sense of fulfillment and satisfaction.
Computer Mediated Communication
Face to face communication isn’t the only way people can create and maintain personal relationships. Along with telephone and old fashioned correspondence, Computer Mediated Communication- CMC provides another way to interact
Experiential Learning
Experiential learning is defined by Johnson & Johnson (1997) as generating an action theory from your own experiences and then continually modifying it to improve your effectiveness
Self disclosure
s the process of deliberately revealing information about oneself that is significant and which would not be normally known by others (Adler and Towne, 2000).
Feedback
in this context, refers to the information we get from people with whom we interact.
Self Talk
may be defined as holding an internal dialogue with yourself. These inner conversations have a powerful impact on emotional well-being and motivation.
self-fulfilling prophecy.
When you predict a negative outcome, you may be creating a
Personality inventories
are described as those instruments that are designed to assess personal, emotional and social traits/behaviours, as distinguished from instruments that measure aptitudes, achievements and interests.
Narrative tone
s the expression of one’s attitude (towards life). It is influenced by the quality psychological development (trust vs mis-trust) within the first two years of one’s life. It indicates a person’s underlying faith in the possibilities of human intention and behaviour.
Imagery
This involves the use of vivid descriptive or figurative language to represent object or ideas and stimulate the senses (hearing, feeling, seeing, smelling, taste). Important sources for the development of images are the family and culture
Interpersonal Theory
This theory holds the assumption that individuals are driven to interact with others for several reasons including:
reduce anxiety
affirm each other’s self concept
(Harry Stack Sullivan, 1953 & George Herbert Meade, 1934)
Self concept
may be described as the cognitive (thinking) aspect of the self.
Social Comparison theory
(Festinger, 1954) involves evaluating ourselves in terms of how we compare to others.
Cognitive Conservatism
seek out information that conforms to an existing self-concept
Internal sources
internal standards and self guide