Gym health test deck Flashcards
what are some characteristics of healthy relationships?
- communication
- respect
- trust
- honesty
- equality
- making mutual choices
- enjoying personal time away from eachother
what are some characteristics of unhealthy relationships?
- no communication
- disrepect
- no trust / dishonest
- accusing of cheating
- jealousy issues
- controlling
- always spending time together
what are the types of violence?
- physical abuse: threatened or actual use of force to injure or hurt someone
- verbal abuse: verbal threats or hurtful comments directed toward another person
- financial abuse: blackmail, extortion (threat of violence so that person has to pay to avoid consequences), continually borrowing money, using the person for financial means
- social bullying: a person/group purposely causes harm to another person/group by excluding them or causing harm
- sexual harrasment: unwanted harm of a sexual nature, including sexual comments, touching, sexting, forwarding sexual pictures, making fun of someone’s gender, gender identity or sexual orientation
what does F.R.I.E.S stand for?
F: freely given - both partners have the freedom to say yes or no. consent does not involve any type of pressure, force or manipulation
R: reversible - anyone can change there mind at anytime, even if you are in the middle of affection
I: informed - both partners need to know exactly what thier consenting to every single time
E: enthusiastic - both partners should be excited and very much interested in what is happening. if they are not STOP immediatly
S: specific - each individual affection requires consent each time, even if you have done it before
what is the legal age of consent in Canada?
16 years old
what is consent?
Consent is an agreement to engage in an activity; it occurs when you ask, or give, permission to do something
what is gender identity?
How someone identifies; their internal sense of being male, female, neither of these, both, or another gender(s)
what is sex assigned at birth?
The sex classification that someone was assigned at birth. This is usually decided at birth or in utero, and is usually based on genitalia
what does being queer mean?
A person who is gay or trans
what does being transgender/trans mean?
Anyone whose sex assigned at birth and gender identity do not correspond in the expected way
what is masculinity?
Socially constructed set of characteristics, roles, behaviors, usually associated with men and boys
what is feminity?
Socially constructed set of characteristics, roles, behaviors, usually associated with women and girls
how is masculinity portrayed in the media?
boys need to be:
- strong and not weak
- should earn a higher income then females
- working in construction
- no emotions
- athletic
- player
how is femininity portrayed in the media?
girls should be:
- wear makeup/do hair
- sensitive and emotional
- not working construction jobs
- naive and stupid
- taking care of children while the man works
- desired body type (hour glass)
what is sex trafficking?
it refers to situations where youth (under the age of 18) are forced to exchange sex or images for:
material items like food, shelter, drugs, clothing
OR
non-material items such as protection, love, and belonging, through the use of power, control, and manipulation
what is child sexual exploitation?
When someone threatens to expose sexual pictures or videos of you and prostitution under the age of 18. This is illegal in Canada.
what are the stages of sex trafficking?
- luring
- grooming (love bombing)
- isolation
- manipulation + control
- exploitation
what is the first stage (luring) of sex trafficking?
luring: looking for vulnerable young people at school, malls, community centers, online (TikTok, Snapchat, Instagram etc.) and learning all about them
what is the second stage of sex trafficking?
grooming: using information about someone to play with their emotions and insecurities
→ This is where they get Love Bombed
what is the third stage (isolation) of sex trafficking?
isolation: Creating distance between the individuals and their loved ones
what is the forth stage (manipulation and control) of sex trafficking?
starts pushing boundaries and pressuring victim to do things they are not comfortable with - send mixed messages that makes the victim feel like they must participate in sex acts
what is the fifth stage of sex trafficking?
exploitation: forcing the victim to work in massage parlours, strip clubs and eventually progressing to sex acts. Trafficker becomes violent and threatening
what are risk factors that make someone vulnerable?
- lives in turmoil: struggling at school, unstable family situations
- unmet needs: lack of food/shelter, doesn’t have a strong support system of friends or family, low self esteem, insecurities, sense of belonging)
- Past traumatic experiences: can cause poor self image and self worth
- Online luring: through gaming, chat rooms, dating sites, social media
- Changes in societal norms around sex: pressures around partying and “hooking up” and fomo
- Lack of knowledge about healthy relationships and what sex trafficking is
what are some warning signs of sex trafficking?
- loses contact with friends and family
- braging about getting gifts and making or having more money
- changes in apperance (looks older), inapropriatly dressed, new expensive clothing
- unexplained absenses from school
- having physical injuries
- being secretive or lying
what is sextortion?
sextortion is a form of manipulation. when someone threatens to share a sexual image or video of you too other people if you listen to them
what to do if you are being threatened of sextortion?
NEVER comply with the threat
STOP all forms of communication with the individual
DEACTIVATE all accounts used to communicate with the individual
SPEAK to a trusted adult about what is happening
what is puberty?
Puberty is the time when a growing child begins the process of sexual maturation
what happens during puberty?
puberty involves a series of physical stages or steps that make the body capable of reproduction
when does puberty take place?
females: 8-13 years old
males: 10-15 years old
(each person is different, everyone starts to go through puberty on their own schedule)