Gender Flashcards
fishman
women are left to do conversational shitwork if not it would fail
atkins
men use deficit language in court, shows it is not about gender, but lack of power
coates
male conversations - competitive
female conversations - co-operative
difference model
men and women communicate differently, not better / worse
coates
men control the topic of conversation and keep it to male orientated subjects
lakoff (terminology)
terms are marked (marked terms) to female equivalent (hostess, waitress)
lakoff (deficit)
- intensifiers (‘very’)
- hedging (‘sort of’)
- weak adjectives (‘nice’)
- back channelling (mhm)
hyde
there are more similarities between the genders than there is difference
holmes
women referred to as food and animals
howe
men are active participants, keen to respond and provide their opinion
women are active listeners, respond though backchanneling
deficit model
women’s language is weaker
zimmerman
men interrupt women 96% of the time in mixed sex conversations
tannen (vs)
advice vs understanding
conflict vs compromise
independence vs intimacy
information vs feelings
orders vs proposals
status vs support
tannen (orientation)
male talk is report orientated
female talk is rapport orientated