DEAR MAN Flashcards
What skill do you use DEAR MAN for?
DEAR MAN is a DBT acronym that outlines an interpersonal effectiveness strategy for asserting one’s needs and resolving conflicts.
How does DEAR MAN help?
DEAR MAN is a powerful tool for improving communication and interpersonal relationships, helping individuals to assert their needs, set boundaries, and navigate conflicts more effectively.
What does DEAR MAN stand for?
Describe
Express
Assert
Reinforce
(Stay) Mindful
Appear confident
Negotiate
What does (D)EAR MAN mean?
Describe - Clearly and objectively describe the situation or issue.
What does D(E)AR MAN mean?
Express - Share your feelings and thoughts about the situation.
What does DE(A)R MAN mean?
Assert - Clearly state what you want or need from the other person.
What does DEA(R) MAN mean?
Reinforce - Explain the positive outcomes of the other person meeting your request.
What does DEAR (M)AN mean?
Mindful - Maintain focus on your goal and avoid getting sidetracked by irrelevant issues or emotions.
What does DEAR M(A)N mean?
Appear Confident - Use confident body language and tone of voice to communicate your needs effectively.
What does DEAR MA(N) mean?
Negotiate - Be willing to compromise and find a solution that meets both parties needs.