Cours 6 Flashcards
EXTRA est ce que au niveau bio le sexe est vital a la survie de notre espèce
oui, for almost all people
EXTRA 3 facons pour les enfants davoir du plaisir sexuels
- contact tactile avec caregiver
- sucking
- self-stimulation ie rub on blanket (even 2 months old)
EXTRA qd enfant commence a mastruber et pk et but
2-3 ans car dextérité manuel augmente (mais aussi possible a 4-5 ans mais plus rare)
pour curiosité
EXTRA impact du développement sur sexualité future
Expectation que si je pleures je serai reconforter par caregiver=shape their sexual development since they may consequently grow up expecting that their sexual and romantic partners will also respond in a loving way when distress =better survival
EXTRA qd enfant réalise difference homme-femme et impact vers 2-5 ans
entre 1 et 2 ans
2-5 ans: play doctor, explore lautre (pas indication oreintation)
EXTRA impact dune reaction negative a la mastrubation par les parents et solution
feel ashamed and guilty about their sexuality, and they may affect children’s future emotional and sexual adjustment
- apprendre comporteemnt approprié
EXTRA cest quoi un sexually healthy children et 2 facon dy arriver et 1 consequnce positive
- feel good about their bodies, are respectful of others, understand the concept of privacy, make age-appropriate decisions, feel comfortable asking their parents questions about sexuality, and are prepared for the changes of puberty.
- be askable parents
- take advantage of teachable moments: qd play docotr ou enfant voie homo sembrasser
- consequence +: reocnnait plus comp. inapproprié
EXTRAquarrive til vers 12 ans, 2 explanations
latency period donc diminution sexualité selon freud mais dautres etudes dit non
- diminution explqiué par 2 choses: attitude negative des parents a sexualité ouverte ou effort de lenfant a essayer adopter norme socialement acceptable ie si je suis gars je peux pas aimé truc féminin (peu mener prob estime)
EXTRA in female, most salient biological change et male
Menarche: 1ere mesntruation
Gars: semenarche: first ejaculation
EXTRA est ce que puberté commence plus tot ou tard mtn, pk
tot car obésité ie breast avant
EXTRA 1ere fois plus positive qd 2 choses
- in relationship
- pas sous linfluence de drogue ou alcohol
double standard et a impact sur quoi
A set of culturally maintained standards for sexual behaviour reflecting more permissive and less restricted sexual expression by men than by women
- impact sur premiere fois
EXTRA 3 raisons principales pour et contre pour avoir sex
Pour: amour, curiosité,
contre: pas prete, pas opportunité, pas la bonne personne
EXTRA pk + ITSS
teens are increasingly likely to have a series of monogamous sexual relationships - et une raison pk pas de condom…
EXTRA sex can be more than just a physical sensation
it is often a sensual and emotional experience that creates intimacy between partner
EXTRA 3 types of sexuality when single
- casual sex : one-night stands, booty calls, fuck buddies, and friends with benefits (especially young adults)
- celibacy
- serial monogamy: series of exclusive relationships
EXTRA motivations for using TINDER
love, casual sex, ease of communication, self-worth validation, the thrill of excitement, and trendiness (Sumter, Vandenbosh, & Ligtenberg, 2017); interestingly, the “love” motivation was a stronger motivator than the “casual sex” motivation.
EXTRA 2 benefits and 1 danger of online communication tech for dating
Benefits: more people, contact ie long distance
Danger: jealousy ie tjrs abonné a ex
EXTRA Where atteitudes towards premarital sex is bad and 9 contributing factors
india and ethiopia (asian-canadian less premarital sex, but more when acculturated)
- age (older), less education, live rural areas, started working before 15, drugs-alcohol, watch tv, peers as confidents, peers engaging in premarital sex, parental influence (lack of support, disapprove relationship, violence)
EXTRA is long distance bad
no for one study: more in love, just as satisfied, better comm, no decrease in sexuality, less break up
But! maybe not realistic opinion of partner, so maybe relationship problems
- distance and frequency of visits alone do not predict relationship succes
- also depends Attitudes, perceptions, communication, and individual factors (anxiety, attachment, relationship style) ie sees LD more positive=more satisfaction
BREF: not doomed maintain a positive attitude and work hard to meet each other’s need
EXTRA 2 avantages and 1 disadvantage of living togheter
Avantages: apprendre a se connaitre, plus sex
Desavantage: conflit surtout si les 2 veulent pas mariage
EXTRA why mariage later now (4)
- plus education
- habite ensemble avant
- femme moins dépendant homme
- moins pression ajd mariage+enfant
EXTRA frequence sexuelle apres maraige, apres bb, qd enfant partent et pk diminue (4)
apres mariage=max
apres bb=diminue
qd enfants partent=plus
Pressures from a variety of sources such as work, family, financial stress, habituation
EXTRA is it impossible to know whether marital dissatisfaction leads to a decrease in sexual activity or whether a lack of sex in the marriage causes the partners to become unsatisfied.
no
EXTRA most important factor for marital satisfaction and other
friendship bw spouses
- cost outweighs benefit
EXTRA Women are more likely to be upset about their partner being involved in an NCNM relationship characterized by emotional attachment, whereas men are more likely to be upset about those involving a sexual component, why
sociobiological explanation
homme: crainte saura pas si pere
femme: pere va diviser ses ressources pour enfants
EXTRA mm si divorce qte assé stable, 3 facteurs plus divorce
- plus jeune
- moins religieux mm si pas bcp
- deja divorcé passé
EXTRA in men (3) and women (1) problem associated with aging
Men: erection, orgasm, sexual interest
Women: vaginal lubrification (attenuated bc loving partner)
EXTRA who has less sex with age (2)
ower than average sexual activity over their lifespan and those with a physical and/or mental illness
EXTRA physical and hormone related chnages in women vs men +social
women: postmenopause (and perimenopausal?) = less sexual desire+less self-stimulating
Men: longer for erection, less firm, smaller testicles, ejaculation less forceful, greater refractory period, less sexual desire
difference interindividuelle ie fumes, estime, performance pressure
*less privacy ie nursing home
EXTRA more or less foreplay w age
more
EXTRA why greater risk od STD with age (4)
- less safe-sex bc was in relationship before without
- vaginal lining thinner so more tear=more std
- lower immune system
- ageism: moins testing
3 phases de relations amoureuses et enjeux associé aux technologies numériques
INITIATION: renocntrer
Maintien: ie comm ou surveillance
dissolution: surveillance
qui sont les plus grand utilisateurs de medias sociaux
jeunes adultes (18 a 29)
augmentation croissante
2 plateforme les plus populaire
Les deux plateformes les plus populaires sont Facebook et Youtube