Cours 6 Flashcards
EXTRA est ce que au niveau bio le sexe est vital a la survie de notre espèce
oui, for almost all people
EXTRA 3 facons pour les enfants davoir du plaisir sexuels
- contact tactile avec caregiver
- sucking
- self-stimulation ie rub on blanket (even 2 months old)
EXTRA qd enfant commence a mastruber et pk et but
2-3 ans car dextérité manuel augmente (mais aussi possible a 4-5 ans mais plus rare)
pour curiosité
EXTRA impact du développement sur sexualité future
Expectation que si je pleures je serai reconforter par caregiver=shape their sexual development since they may consequently grow up expecting that their sexual and romantic partners will also respond in a loving way when distress =better survival
EXTRA qd enfant réalise difference homme-femme et impact vers 2-5 ans
entre 1 et 2 ans
2-5 ans: play doctor, explore lautre (pas indication oreintation)
EXTRA impact dune reaction negative a la mastrubation par les parents et solution
feel ashamed and guilty about their sexuality, and they may affect children’s future emotional and sexual adjustment
- apprendre comporteemnt approprié
EXTRA cest quoi un sexually healthy children et 2 facon dy arriver et 1 consequnce positive
- feel good about their bodies, are respectful of others, understand the concept of privacy, make age-appropriate decisions, feel comfortable asking their parents questions about sexuality, and are prepared for the changes of puberty.
- be askable parents
- take advantage of teachable moments: qd play docotr ou enfant voie homo sembrasser
- consequence +: reocnnait plus comp. inapproprié
EXTRAquarrive til vers 12 ans, 2 explanations
latency period donc diminution sexualité selon freud mais dautres etudes dit non
- diminution explqiué par 2 choses: attitude negative des parents a sexualité ouverte ou effort de lenfant a essayer adopter norme socialement acceptable ie si je suis gars je peux pas aimé truc féminin (peu mener prob estime)
EXTRA in female, most salient biological change et male
Menarche: 1ere mesntruation
Gars: semenarche: first ejaculation
EXTRA est ce que puberté commence plus tot ou tard mtn, pk
tot car obésité ie breast avant
EXTRA 1ere fois plus positive qd 2 choses
- in relationship
- pas sous linfluence de drogue ou alcohol
double standard et a impact sur quoi
A set of culturally maintained standards for sexual behaviour reflecting more permissive and less restricted sexual expression by men than by women
- impact sur premiere fois
EXTRA 3 raisons principales pour et contre pour avoir sex
Pour: amour, curiosité,
contre: pas prete, pas opportunité, pas la bonne personne
EXTRA pk + ITSS
teens are increasingly likely to have a series of monogamous sexual relationships - et une raison pk pas de condom…
EXTRA sex can be more than just a physical sensation
it is often a sensual and emotional experience that creates intimacy between partner
EXTRA 3 types of sexuality when single
- casual sex : one-night stands, booty calls, fuck buddies, and friends with benefits (especially young adults)
- celibacy
- serial monogamy: series of exclusive relationships
EXTRA motivations for using TINDER
love, casual sex, ease of communication, self-worth validation, the thrill of excitement, and trendiness (Sumter, Vandenbosh, & Ligtenberg, 2017); interestingly, the “love” motivation was a stronger motivator than the “casual sex” motivation.
EXTRA 2 benefits and 1 danger of online communication tech for dating
Benefits: more people, contact ie long distance
Danger: jealousy ie tjrs abonné a ex
EXTRA Where atteitudes towards premarital sex is bad and 9 contributing factors
india and ethiopia (asian-canadian less premarital sex, but more when acculturated)
- age (older), less education, live rural areas, started working before 15, drugs-alcohol, watch tv, peers as confidents, peers engaging in premarital sex, parental influence (lack of support, disapprove relationship, violence)
EXTRA is long distance bad
no for one study: more in love, just as satisfied, better comm, no decrease in sexuality, less break up
But! maybe not realistic opinion of partner, so maybe relationship problems
- distance and frequency of visits alone do not predict relationship succes
- also depends Attitudes, perceptions, communication, and individual factors (anxiety, attachment, relationship style) ie sees LD more positive=more satisfaction
BREF: not doomed maintain a positive attitude and work hard to meet each other’s need
EXTRA 2 avantages and 1 disadvantage of living togheter
Avantages: apprendre a se connaitre, plus sex
Desavantage: conflit surtout si les 2 veulent pas mariage
EXTRA why mariage later now (4)
- plus education
- habite ensemble avant
- femme moins dépendant homme
- moins pression ajd mariage+enfant
EXTRA frequence sexuelle apres maraige, apres bb, qd enfant partent et pk diminue (4)
apres mariage=max
apres bb=diminue
qd enfants partent=plus
Pressures from a variety of sources such as work, family, financial stress, habituation
EXTRA is it impossible to know whether marital dissatisfaction leads to a decrease in sexual activity or whether a lack of sex in the marriage causes the partners to become unsatisfied.
no