Counseling and Helping Relationships (1/6) Flashcards
Helping relationships
the relationship in counseling is the determining factor whether or not counseling is successful
Key elements in building this relationship
Human relations core
1
empathy, respect, genuineness
- Carl Rogers
Key elements in building this relationship
Social influence core
2
competence, power, intimacy
- expertness, attractiveness, trustworthiness were identified by Stanley Strong in his social influence model
Key elements in building this relationship
Skills core
3
Allen Ivey identified microskills - communication skill units such as attending, inquiry, reflection
Key elements in building this relationship
Theory core
4
these help the counselor understand self and interpersonal relationship and skills
- help to understand the problems of clients and help to choose interventions that are likely to be effective with the identified problems
Psychoanalytic - Freud
Overview
identified a structure of personality (id, ego, superego)
- id: unconscious motivation/energy; ruled by pleasure principle
- ego: controlled by reality principle
- superego: internalized ethics
Therapy includes: free assocation, interpretation of dreams/other client material
Psychoanalytic - Freud
Transference
projections into therapist; must be worked through
Psychoanalytic - Freud
Countertransference
projections of the therapist onto the client
Neo-Freudians
Overview
a number of psychoanalysts moved away from Freud’s emphasis on the id as the dominant psychological force and placed more emphasis on the ego, including both psychodynamic and sociodynamic forces
Neo-Freudians
Karen Horney
- security is each person’s major motivation and the person becomes anxious when it is not achieved
- irrational ways to mend disrupted human relationships may become neurotic needs
Neo-Freudians
Erich Fromm
the individual must join with others to develop self-fulfillment (social character) otherwise they may become lonely and nonproductive
- society offers opportunities to experience mutual love and respect
Neo-Freudians
Harry Stack Sullivan
- a social systems (interpersonal) approach can lead to understanding human behavior
- behavior can best be understood in terms of social interactions, not as mechanistic and linear
Neo-Freudians
Other Neo-Freudians
- Otto Rank
- Wilheim Reich
- Theodore Reik
- Carl Jung
- Alfred Adler
Objects Relations Theory
Objects Relations Theory
based on psychoanalytic concepts
Objects Relations Theory
Object relations
interpersonal relationships as represented intrapsychically
- shape an individual’s current interactions with people, both in reality and in fantasy
Objects Relations Theory
Object
a significant person or thing that is the target (object) of one’s feelings/drives
Objects Relations Theory
Four broad stages of development
identified as important in first three years of life
- progressing through these stages provides the child a secure base for later development. the child develops trust that needs will be met
- attachment, borderline, narcissistic disorders may occur when normal progression through these stages does not occur
Objects Relations Theory
Stages of development
Fusion with mother
1
first 3 - 4 weeks of life
normal infantile autism
- state of merged oneness with the mother
- period of total dependence, unable to distinguish between self and mother
Objects Relations Theory
Stages of development
Symbiosis
2
3rd to 8th month
- infant behaves and functions as though they and their mother are a single omnipotent system, a dual unity within one common boundary
Objects Relations Theory
Stages of development
Separation/Individuation
3
starts the 4th or 5th month
- begins to develop an understanding of boundaries of self, and so mother is increasingly viewed as an individual
Objects Relations Theory
Stages of development
Constancy of self and object
4
by 36th month
- the ability to maintain positive feelings for someone while you are hurt/angry/frustrated
- ability to maintain a stable and consistent perception of oneself and others
Objects Relations Theory
Margaret Mahler
Psychological Birth of the Human Infant
Objects Relations Theory
Other theorists
- Heinz Kohurt
- Otto Kernberg
Person-centered/Client-centered (Rogerian)
Carl Rogers
reacted against the directive psychoanalytic approach which put the counselor in charge of giving advice, teaching, interpreting
- focus was more on the person’s phenomenological world reflecting and clarifying their verbal/nonverbal communication
Principle books
- Counseling and Psychotherapy (1942)
- Client Centered Therapy (1951)
- On Becoming a Person (1961)
Person-centered/Client-centered (Rogerian)
Concepts
- process of becoming, moving clients to self-actualization, relationship between client and counselor are critical
- Focus of counseling went from past to present and was on feelings
Counselor should show (core conditions):
- unconditional positive regard
- genuineness (congruence)
- empathic understanding
Gestalt (Frederick “Fritz” Perls)
Concepts
Gestalt is German and roughly means a collection of shapes/pieces that make up a whole
- based on existential principles
- here-and-now focus
- holistic systems theory viewpoint
- When a need is in the forefront, it represents a figure, and other needs are ground (in the background)
- as the need is met, completes the gestalt and a new need takes its place
Goal: to become whole beings, to complete ‘gestalts’
Key concepts:
- personal responsibility
- unfinished business
- awareness of the ‘now’
Gestalt (Frederick “Fritz” Perls)
Gestalt is a type of experiential therapy
encouraging the taking of responsibility by the client
- the counselor uses confrontation and encourages the client to stay with feelings and to relive experiences and finish business
Gestalt (Frederick “Fritz” Perls)
Techniques
- role-playing
- two-chair techniques
- dream work
Interpretation is done by the client and not the counselor
Gestalt (Frederick “Fritz” Perls)
Perls wrote:
- Gestalt Therapy Verbatim
- In and Out of the Garbage Can
Individual Psychology (Alfred Adler and Rudolph Dreikurs)
Main concepts
belief in the uniqueness of each individual is influenced by social factors
- each person has a sense of inferiority and strives for superiority
- we choose a lifestyle, a unified life plan, which gives meaning to our experiencs which include habits, family, career, attitudes, etc.
- very adaptable/versatile and can be used to treat specific disorders
Limitation:
- lack of supporting research
- narrow theory
- vague
- lack of a how to use in counseling
Individual Psychology (Alfred Adler and Rudolph Dreikurs)
Counseling goals
to help the client understand lifestyle and identify appropriate social and community interests; explain clients to themselves and for them to overcome inferiority
Individual Psychology (Alfred Adler and Rudolph Dreikurs)
Techniques
those leading to insight such as life histories, homework assignments, paradoxical intentions
Transactional analysis (Eric Berne)
Main ideas
Personality has three ego states:
- Parent
- Adult
- Child
life script: develops in childhood and influences a person’s behavior
- many transactions with others can be characterized as games with the intent to avoid intimacy
Transactional analysis (Eric Berne)
Complementary transactions
Adult to adult
- lead to good communication
Transactional analysis (Eric Berne)
Crossed transactions
Adult to Child and Child to Parent
- lead to barriers to communication