Counseling and Helping Relationships (1/6) Flashcards
Helping relationships
the relationship in counseling is the determining factor whether or not counseling is successful
Key elements in building this relationship
Human relations core
1
empathy, respect, genuineness
- Carl Rogers
Key elements in building this relationship
Social influence core
2
competence, power, intimacy
- expertness, attractiveness, trustworthiness were identified by Stanley Strong in his social influence model
Key elements in building this relationship
Skills core
3
Allen Ivey identified microskills - communication skill units such as attending, inquiry, reflection
Key elements in building this relationship
Theory core
4
these help the counselor understand self and interpersonal relationship and skills
- help to understand the problems of clients and help to choose interventions that are likely to be effective with the identified problems
Psychoanalytic - Freud
Overview
identified a structure of personality (id, ego, superego)
- id: unconscious motivation/energy; ruled by pleasure principle
- ego: controlled by reality principle
- superego: internalized ethics
Therapy includes: free assocation, interpretation of dreams/other client material
Psychoanalytic - Freud
Transference
projections into therapist; must be worked through
Psychoanalytic - Freud
Countertransference
projections of the therapist onto the client
Neo-Freudians
Overview
a number of psychoanalysts moved away from Freud’s emphasis on the id as the dominant psychological force and placed more emphasis on the ego, including both psychodynamic and sociodynamic forces
Neo-Freudians
Karen Horney
- security is each person’s major motivation and the person becomes anxious when it is not achieved
- irrational ways to mend disrupted human relationships may become neurotic needs
Neo-Freudians
Erich Fromm
the individual must join with others to develop self-fulfillment (social character) otherwise they may become lonely and nonproductive
- society offers opportunities to experience mutual love and respect
Neo-Freudians
Harry Stack Sullivan
- a social systems (interpersonal) approach can lead to understanding human behavior
- behavior can best be understood in terms of social interactions, not as mechanistic and linear
Neo-Freudians
Other Neo-Freudians
- Otto Rank
- Wilheim Reich
- Theodore Reik
- Carl Jung
- Alfred Adler
Objects Relations Theory
Objects Relations Theory
based on psychoanalytic concepts
Objects Relations Theory
Object relations
interpersonal relationships as represented intrapsychically
- shape an individual’s current interactions with people, both in reality and in fantasy
Objects Relations Theory
Object
a significant person or thing that is the target (object) of one’s feelings/drives
Objects Relations Theory
Four broad stages of development
identified as important in first three years of life
- progressing through these stages provides the child a secure base for later development. the child develops trust that needs will be met
- attachment, borderline, narcissistic disorders may occur when normal progression through these stages does not occur
Objects Relations Theory
Stages of development
Fusion with mother
1
first 3 - 4 weeks of life
normal infantile autism
- state of merged oneness with the mother
- period of total dependence, unable to distinguish between self and mother
Objects Relations Theory
Stages of development
Symbiosis
2
3rd to 8th month
- infant behaves and functions as though they and their mother are a single omnipotent system, a dual unity within one common boundary
Objects Relations Theory
Stages of development
Separation/Individuation
3
starts the 4th or 5th month
- begins to develop an understanding of boundaries of self, and so mother is increasingly viewed as an individual
Objects Relations Theory
Stages of development
Constancy of self and object
4
by 36th month
- the ability to maintain positive feelings for someone while you are hurt/angry/frustrated
- ability to maintain a stable and consistent perception of oneself and others
Objects Relations Theory
Margaret Mahler
Psychological Birth of the Human Infant
Objects Relations Theory
Other theorists
- Heinz Kohurt
- Otto Kernberg
Person-centered/Client-centered (Rogerian)
Carl Rogers
reacted against the directive psychoanalytic approach which put the counselor in charge of giving advice, teaching, interpreting
- focus was more on the person’s phenomenological world reflecting and clarifying their verbal/nonverbal communication
Principle books
- Counseling and Psychotherapy (1942)
- Client Centered Therapy (1951)
- On Becoming a Person (1961)