childhood & adolescence sexuality Flashcards
why is there limited research
belief that it may encourage sexual behaviour in children
the idea that if you don’t talk about it it will go away
most studies focus on knowledge - what kids know
physical development at birth
we are born with functional sexual anatomy
erections and vaginal lubrication
gender in early life
fundamental part of self concept
children develop the realization that their internal sense of gender is fixed and will likely not change (gender constancy)
ages 2-5
children learn names for basic anatomy
curious about genitals and bodily waste
discover gender roles through parents/friends
self-stimulate, play sex games
boundaries in children
children should understand their anatomy and know how it relates to privacy and boundaries
knowing the correct terms and boundaries can help prevent sexual abuse
ages 6-12
external signs of puberty begin large range in age body privacy becomes a concern sexual interest increases curiosity about being "normal" may explore sexual contact
menarche
first menstural period
semenarche
first ejaculation
sexual contact
children from age 6-puberty engage in same and other sex play
teaches interpersonal and physical skills
masturbation
parents
parents can be confused and upset about sex play
adolescence (age 12-18)
period between onset of puberty and when a person reaches adulthood
more sophisticated sense of identity and problem solving skills
no other time that so many things happen
puberty
begins 8-13 for girls 9-14 for boys muscle development, bone growth, more energy, mood changes pubic hair and underarm hair skin changes increased hormones
female puberty development
breasts, hips, fat deposits
feelings about periods shaped by peers or siblings
male puberty physical development
large growth spurts and increase in appetite, darkening of scrotum and depending of voice
frequent spontaneous erections and nocturnal emissions
middle adolescence: 14-16
trying different roles
experimentation
exclusivity in relationships
masturbation increases