Chapter 9 "The 12 Yeah-Buts"

Question 1

The 12 “Yeah-Buts”

Answer 1

1 - Confronting Authority
2 - Breaking from the Pack
3 - Married to a Mime
4 - Hearsay
5 - Potentially Devastating
6 - Way out of Line and Scary
7 - Changing your Culture
8 - Borderline Behavior
9 - Our Plate is Overflowing
10 - I don't want to be a Nag
11 - Our Relationship is based Solely on Problems
12 - I don't think we can change

Question 2

When another person is acting in a way that bothers you, you have 4 options:

Answer 2

Carp
Converse
Cope
Cut

Question 3

Of the 4 options for dealing with a person that bothers you which is the bad option?

Answer 3

Carping

Question 4

Your best option for dealing with a person that bothers you is?

Answer 4

Conversing with them

Question 5

3 factors that make positive deviants better with handling borderline behavior are:

Answer 5

Research, Homework, and Connections

Question 6

Big Issues, Often Repeated

Answer 6

Are Ongoing Disasters

Question 7

Little Issues, Often Repeated

Answer 7

Are Nagging