Chapter 9 Flashcards
What is a communication Climate?
The social tone of a relationship and the way people feel about each other as they do activities
How are communication climates established?
They are determined by the degree ti which people see themselves as valued.
Define confirming communication
direct or indirect messages that convey valuing (“You matter to me” “It’s good to see you”
Define Discronfirming communication
Messages that show a lack of regard
What are the types of confirming messages?
- Recognition
- Acknowledgement
- Endorsement
Define Recognition as a confirming message
indicating your awareness of the other person
Define acknowledgement as a confirming message
Paying attention to the ideas and feelings of others “I see your point” “I understand that.” You do not have to agree with the person.
Define endorsement as a confirming message
You agree with or support the other person’s opinions
What are the types of disagreeing messages?
- Argumentativeness
- Complaining
Define argumentativeness as a disagreeing method
presenting and defending positions on issues while opposing positions taken by others. Attacking the message NOT the person.
Define complaining as a disagreeing method
When a person isn’t prepared to argue, but still wants to acknowledge their dissatisfaction.
What are the types of disconfirming messages?
- Aggressiveness
Aggressiveness
The tendency to attack another person’s character, background or identity.
Define defensiveness
The process of protecting our presenting self
define Gibb’s Evaluation vs. Description
judging another person vs. describing your position without evaluating others.