Chapter 8 - Identity Flashcards
What is self-concept?
the way one perceives themselves
What is self-esteem?
the way one feels about themselve
What is identity?
the degree to which one feels secure about who they are and where they’re headed in life
What are self-concepts in childhood like?
concrete
dichotomous - “either or” thinking
develop self-conceptions
global characterizations
- ex. “I’m nice, I’m smart, I’m good at basketball”
How do self-conceptions change in adolescence (generally)?
changes in cognitive development allow thinking abstractly and in multiple dimensions
leads to more differentiated self-conceptions
characteristics vary according to situation
allow young people to see themselves as complicated, contradictory, and multifaceted
What are the 3 major changes to self-conceptions in adolescence?
link traits/characteristics to specific situations
- ex. “I’m funny with my close friends but shy in a big group”
differentiate between different people’s perspectives
- ex. “I think I am outgoing but my friends think I am shy”
realize they may present differently to different people
- ex. “My friends see me as really friendly but my family thinks I am moody and rude all the time”
What is the main developmental identity task of adolescence?
construction of a sense of self that includes “multiple selves” in different roles and relationships
creating, defining, differentiating, and consolidating their sense of self
Why do these identity changes occur in adolescence?
cognitive change allows them to see multiple dimensions (contradictions/differences)
social change
- increased autonomy
- need to define self differently with parents and others
different treatment by different people in different situations = different attribute
What are the “3 selves”?
actual self (who I really am)
ideal self (who I would like to be)
feared self (who I do not want to be)
How do the 3 selves help shape self-development?
when actual does not equal ideal = disappointment and depression
worry/fear about the feared self = anxiety
struggle towards the ideal
What is differentiation of identity?
need to integrate the different selves, figure out who is the real me
identify true and false behaviour
What is false-self behaviour?
intentionally presenting a false impression to others
pretend to be something you are not
grade 6 children do not understand this but grade 7 children do
Why do individuals engage in false-self behaviour?
impress others
fit in
meet other’s expectations
appear acceptable/similar to others
When does false-self behaviour occur most often?
in dating relationships
sense of self not established, fluctuates situationally
more susceptible to peer pressure
most insecure in romanic situations
also on social media as its easier to demonstrate false self
What are the implications of ongoing false-self behaviour?
conflict between truth and choice
leads to negative self-evaluations, overall self-esteem, and relational self-esteem
less awareness of true attributes
- extreme form of loss of voice
What is loss of voice?
suppression of one’s own thoughts, opinions, and behaviours by being phoney
keeping your real thoughts, opinions, and behaviours to yourself and only saying what you think others want to hear
What is lack of authenticity?
suppression of real self -> lack of zest for self
manifests as depression, low self-esteem, low energy, and hopelessness
What is baseline self esteem?
overall sense of self in various areas
tends to be fairly consistent over the youth years