Chapter 7- Conversation And Communication Style Flashcards

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Define conversations

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Logically managed and interactive sequential interchanges

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2
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Is small talk an even simple conversation?

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Nope

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3
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Define logically managed

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The participants determine the topic, who gets to speak, for how long, and in what order

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4
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Difference between interactive and sequential

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Interactive- two people must participate in a conversation

Sequential- participants take turns exchanging messages

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5
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Does sequential have a beginning middle and end?

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Yes

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6
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What do researchers who study conversation analysis do?

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Study the order, the organization, and the orderliness of everyday interaction

Study what communication does

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7
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What are two reasons to study everyday conversation

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1- learning about the dynamics of conversation could help us effectively and appropriately participate in conversations

2- the basis of formal interactions

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8
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What are some things that rely on appropriate conversation?

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The 
Economy
Law
Religion
Courtship
Socialization
And education
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9
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What is communication apprehension and who studied it?

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An individuals level of fear or anxiety associated with communication related outcomes

James c McCroskey

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10
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What is rational emotive behavior therapy

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Replaces irrational thoughts with rational thoughts to reduce debilitative emotions such as anxiety

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11
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How do conversations function

2 things

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Speech acts

The cooperative principle

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12
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Define speech acts

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Greetings, criticism, invitations, congratulations, insults, promises, requests, and warnings

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13
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What is an example of a speech act

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Do you know the time

You don’t say yes- you tell them the time

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14
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What do speech acts do?

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Reveals the assumptions and expectations that are prevalent in everyday talk

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15
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What is one issue to the speech act theory?

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Can’t explain how conversation effectively functions when the “doing” can have more than one interpretation or when people misinterpret what a portion of talk is supposed to do?

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16
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An example of a disadvantage to speech acts?

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Son: “I’m off!”
Mother: “you sure are- but we’ve known that for a long time!
Pg 184

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17
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What should speech act theory be used in conjunction with?

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A speakers nonverbal behavior, the characteristics of a situation, and the conversational context to interpret a message

18
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What is the cooperative principle, and who developed it?

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Conversation partners use their talk to facilitate understanding

Herbert Paul Grice

19
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What are the four “The Cooperative Principle and Conversation maxims”?

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Quality maxim

Quantity maxim

Relevancy maxim

Manner maxim

20
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Define quality maxim

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We should provide info that is truthful

21
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Define quantity maxim

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We should offer info that is sufficient to keep the convo going
Not too much or too little info

22
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Define relevancy maxim

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We should provid info that pertains to the topic under discussion

23
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Define manner maxim

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We should be organized and specific when we speak

24
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Why should people adhere to the cooperative principle

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The speakers talk will be truthful, sufficient, relevant, and clear

25
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How does cooperative principle explain:
“I’m off!”
“You sure are, but we’ve known that for a long time!”

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Mom understands I’m off

But nonverbal comm from mom(she’s smiling) let’s her son know she’s playing, or teasing

26
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What is the overview of skills associated with competent conversations

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Beginning a conversation

Sustaining a conversation

Concluding a conversation

27
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What could you ask questions about when beginning a conversation?

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The environment
Something that’ll engage others
The other person

28
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What could you do for sustaining a conversation?

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Provide and respond to free information

Credit the source of ideas

Engage in appropriate turn taking

29
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What could you do for concluding a conversation?

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Summarize main ideas

End with a compliment or positive statement

Make plans to see conversation partner again

Indicate closure with “exit lines”

30
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Examples of asking questions about the environment in a college classroom

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In a college class room: what do you know about the professor? I was absent yesterday what did we talk about? What do you think will be on the next exam?

31
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Example of asking a question about the environment in line for a movie

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What are you going to see?
What have you heard about the movie?
Do you like comedies/action movies/ romances?

32
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In engaging in a conversation, what should you choose: open ended questions or closed ended questions? Why?

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Open ended questions

Allows person to elaborate and you can’t get some insights on what they’re thinking

33
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What are three examples you could ask the other person about when asking questions about the other person ?

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About the others family

About the others recent activities

About the other in general

34
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What SHOULDNT you ask the other person about? Why?

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Their physical appearance - too risky

35
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What is an overview in how you can sustain a conversation?

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RESPONDING to and providing free information

Maintaining conversational coherence

Engaging in appropriate turn taking

Crediting the source of ideas

36
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What is free information?

Example?

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Data beyond requested or expected

What do you know about the professor?
- not a lot but some friends told me to enroll in this course

37
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What could free information lead to

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MORE QUESTIONS

38
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Define conversational coherence

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How talk is organized

39
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How do you maintain conversational coherence?

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Talk about only the relevancy- what the topic is about

If you can’t then use metacommunication like (that reminds me of) and go from there

40
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What three things could you be called if you’re not engaging in appropriate turn taking?

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Rude (too many interruptions)

Dominating (not enough turn yielding)

Frustrating (unable to me an important point)

41
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How to cope with conversation dilemmas

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Direct response

Indirect response

Deception

Pleasing the other

Soliciting the others help