Chapter 6 Section 3

Question 1

infatutuation

Answer 1

intense physical attraction to another person

Question 2

T/F: Having infatuation is not normal and not healthy for teenagers

Answer 2

F

Question 3

What are you able to develop from infatuation?

Answer 3

ability to form close attachments later in adult life

Question 4

dating

Answer 4

time you spend together

Question 5

By dating someone you…

Answer 5

can learn about his/her interests, personality, abilities and values

Question 6

Traditional practices for females

Answer 6

wait for males to ask them out or pay for the date

Question 7

Going out as a group

Answer 7

have common interests and give opportunity to see how people behave when they are with others/you

Question 8

Steady dating

Answer 8

couple decides to not see anyone else and see each other on a regular basis; CAN BE A FORM OF SECURITY (partners are guaranteed a date whenever the need arises)

Question 9

drawbacks of steady dating:

Answer 9

limit chances of meeting other people you might like

feel pressured into sex

difficulty breaking up

Question 10

challenges after teen marriages

Answer 10

limited job skills
lack of emotional maturity
loss of freedom
loss of share activities with friends

Question 11

dating violence

Answer 11

pattern of emotional, physical, or sexual abuse that occurs in a dating relationship

Question 12

the cycle of violence

Answer 12

1. tension building stage
2. violent episode
3. calm/”honeymoon” stage

Question 13

tension building stage

Answer 13

“walking on eggshells”

victim tries to please abuser to prevent violence

Question 14

violent episode

Answer 14

breaks tension; violence

Question 15

calm stage

Answer 15

abuser apologizes and promises to never abuse the victim again; may also blame victim for the abuse; followed by another tension-building stage

Question 16

warning signs of abuse

Answer 16

• date is jealous when you talk to others
• date mocks you in public
• date makes all decisions and tries to control you
• date has history of bad relationships
• you feel isolated from friends and family
• you feel less confident;

Question 17

date rape

Answer 17

rape occurs during a date

Question 18

“date rape drug”

Answer 18

fast-acting drugs (hard to detect in food/drink bc colorless, tasteless, odorless); victim will feel “hung over” and unable to recall the rape

Question 19

how to reduce possibility of date rape

Answer 19

• go out as a group
• let someone know where you’re going
• avoid alcohol/drugs
• have $ to get home
• Call 911 in emergencies

Question 20

why do teens stay in abusive relationships?

Answer 20

• abuse is romantic
• friends are in similar relationships
• females believe males should act controlling with physical aggression (sign of masculinity)
• fear of being seen as weak after admitted
• believe they deserve abuse
• fear of alone

Question 21

Steps to ending an abusive relationships:

Answer 21

1. admit the abuse exists
2. realize that you’re not to blame for the abuse and abuser can’t change
3. seek support with problem (friends, family, hotline, teacher); but be aware that these adults are legally required to report abuse