Chapter 3 Section 3 Flashcards
How we react to a stressor depends on what?
how we assess the situation
2 questions for assessing situations
- is this sutation a threat to my wellbeing
2. do i have the necessary resources to meet the challenge?
What influence our assessment of a situation?
personality
optimism
focus on positive aspects of situation
pessimism
focus on the worst aspects and expect the worst
perfectionist
person who accepts nothing less than excellence
affects of being a perfectionist (the cycle)
viciously trying hard, not being satsfied, and trying harder still
how to break the cycle and reduce your stress as a perfectionist
- accept that you cant be perfect
- take pride in the things you do well-
- dont focus on mistakes
resilience
ability to bounce back from extreme/prolonged stress
key factor to resilience
having support of family and friends
characteristics of people with resilience
- know your strengths and abilties
- make plans and steps
- good communication and problem-solving skills
what are examples of resources
time, energy, skills, experience