Chapter 6 Flashcards
Emotional regulation
The ability to control when and how emotions are expressed.
Initiative vs guilt
Erikson’s third psychosocial crisis, in which young children undertake new skills and activities and feel guilty when they do not succeed at them.
Intrinsically motivation
A drive, or reason to pursue a goal, that comes from inside a person, such as the joy of reading a good book.
Extrinsic motivation
A drive, or reason to pursue a goal, that arises from the wish to have external rewards, perhaps by earning money or praise.
How might protective optimism lead to new skills and competencies?
Young children are confident that they can succeed, which helps them learn new skills without the anxiety and self-criticism that keep older people from trying.
Why is postponement of gratification an example of emotional regulation?
The emotional impulse is to experience the joy immediately, so waiting for later joy required regulation of that impulse.
What did Erikson think was characteristic of young children?
He called this stage initiative versus guilt because he thought young children like to try new things, without much caution or reflection.
What is an example (not in the text) of intrinsic motivation?
Any behavior that is rewarding to the person, such as to eat when hungry or to feel a “warm glow” of self-satisfaction when helping others.
What is an example (not in the text) of extrinsic motivation?
Any behavior that is motivated by other people or things. People might eat in order to please the cook, or they might help someone because they hope for a reward.
Why might a child have an imaginary friend?
Children are social, so a child might create a friend because they like companions.
Solitary
A child plays alone, unaware of other children playing nearby.
Onlooker
A child watches other children play.
Parallel
Children play in similar ways but not together.
Associative
Children interact, sharing materials or activities, but not taking turns.
Cooperative
Children play together, creating dramas or taking turns.
Rough-and-tumble
Play that seems to be rough, as in play wrestling or chasing, but in which there is no intent to harm.
Sociodramatic
Pretend play in which children act out various roles and themes in plots or roles that they create.
What are children thought to gain from play?
Many social and creative skills, including how to interact with others and what to do to make oneself happy
Why do pediatricians want to limit children’s screen time?
Screen time reduces other valuable things that children need, such as social interaction and creative play.
How can technology enhance children’s learning instead of inhibiting it?
Technology can teach facts and motor skills. Ideally it is interactive, using technology with adult guidance and comments.
Why does playing with peers increase physical development and emotional regulation?
Children follow each other, enjoying a race or other activity, and they learn to inhibit their selfish emotions in order to have playmates.
What do children learn from rough-and-tumble play?
They learn physical and social skills-including when play becomes too rough.
What do children learn from sociodramatic play?
They learn cooperation and creativity, as they coordinate their ideas with others.
Expressions of warmth
Some parents are warm and affectionate; others are cold and critical.
Strategies for discipline
Parents vary in how they explain, criticize, persuade, and punish.
Expectations for maturity
Parents vary in expectations for responsibility and self-control.
Communication
Some parents listen patiently; others demand silence.
Authoritarian parenting
An approach to child rearing that is characterized by high behavioral standards, strict punishment of misconduct, and little communication from child to parent.
Permissive parenting
An approach to child rearing that is characterized by high nurturance and communication but little discipline, guidance, or control.
Authoritative parenting
An approach to child rearing in which the parents set limits and enforce rules but are flexible and listen to their children
Neglectful/uninvolved parenting
An approach to child rearing in which the parents seem indifferent toward their children, not knowing or caring about their children’s lives.