Chapter 2: Self and Perception Flashcards
Self
shapes how we communicate
Self-awareness
Self-concept
Self-esteem
Three Components of Self
Self-awareness
Self-concept
Self-esteem
Self-Awareness
ability to view ourselves as unique people
not only about inward analysis
Social Comparison
examining others’ behaviors for comparison
Critical self-reflection
special kind of self-awareness that focuses on evaluating and improving communication
Self-Concept
overall assessment of who we are
based on beliefs, attitudes, and values
Self-Verification Theory
choosing relational partners based on how well they support one’s self-concept
Self-fulfilling prophecies
predictions about interactions that modify behavior
may cause predictions to come true
Self-esteem
overall value we assign to ourselves
shapes communication, relationships, and physical and mental health
can change over time
Self-Discrepancy Theory
self-esteem determined by comparison to ideal, ought self
Ideal Self
all the qualities we want to possess
Ought Self
the person we think other want us to be
Intersex
a person possessing differences in reproductive or sexual anatomy that don’t seem to fit typical definitions of female or male
Gender Identity
is our innate sense of ourselves as boy, man, or male; girl, woman, or female; gender-neutral, genderqueer, or gendernonconforming
Sexual orientation
enduring pattern of emotional, romantic, and/or sexual attraction to others
ranges along a continuum
Culture
beliefs, attitudes, values, practices shared by large group of people
Individualistic cultures
individual goals > group goals
Collectivistic cultures
group goals, loyalty > individual goals
Private self
combination of self-awareness, self-concept, self-esteem
Public self
self we present to others
one of the most powerful ways of presenting public self through communication is through personal pronouns