Chapter 14: Approaches to the Self Flashcards
self concept
understanding of self and all qualities/characteristics
self esteem
how you feel about who you are
social identity
how you present yourself to others –> might not match self-concept, making us feel inauthentic
self-awareness
creates potential for inner psychological experience of the self –> we are separate from others
describe the distinction between the “I” and “me”
- “I” = capacity for self-awareness, ability to observe and evaluate ourselves –> the observer
- “me” = object of observation, becomes our self-concept
describe the self concept in infancy
- child learns some things are always there and some things are only there sometimes
- boundaries exist between me and not me
- mirror recognition test can be passed around 18 months
- can’t pick self out of an image until 24 months
have monkeys been found to pass the mirror self recognition test
- chimps and orangutans do
- lower primates do not do it spontaneously, but can be taught to recognize reflections
- some cross-cultural differences (Canadian and American children do so more spontaneously)
what requires self recognition in childhood
pretend play, use of personal pronouns
describe self concept in 2 year olds
- can pick self out of an image
- understand that others have expectations of them
- follow rules by parents
- smile when do something good, frown when bad
- can associated themselves with gender and age and reference to family (I am a sister)
describe self-concept from age 3-12
- mainly based on developing skills and talents
- can think for themselves
- start engaging in social comparison (evaluation of self in comparison to others/reference group)
- learn they can lie and keep secrets (there is a hidden side to self)
describe the trajectory of private self-concept development
- may start with development of imaginary friend
- only they have access to thoughts, feelings, desires
how does self concept change in adolescence
- physical appearance and possessions are important
- likes and dislikes
- personality and social characteristics
- mood states, ideologies, opinions and beliefs
perspective taking
ability to take perspectives of others, see oneself as others do, step outside of oneself and see how they appear to others –> teens go through a period of self-consciousness because of this
objective self-awareness
- seeing yourself as an object of others’ attention
- common period in adolescence
- shyness (which can become chronic) = avoiding opportunities to socialize
what has been found in adolescence and young adults with social anxiety
more likely to chronically use the internet in ways that are problematic –> avoidance of direct socializing
what is characteristic of shy people
- want friendships and social interactions but are held back by insecurities and fears
- avoid spotlight, face-to-face interaction, ruminate after conversations
- not necessarily introverted –> want to be with others, but are nervous to
- sometimes called”conflicted shyness” rather than “social disinterest”
describe the findings on shyness in infancy
- even 4 month olds exhibit signs of shyness
- in play, don’t leave parent’s side
- 1/2 transform to be not shy in later childhood –> these children usually had parents that encouraged them to socialize
- parents who are controlling and protective have shy children
social anxiety
discomfort related to social interactions –> overly concerned of what others think, feel nervous or awkward when talking to new people, afterwards think they said something wrong or looked stupid –> can be interpreted as unfriendliness
how do socially anxious people interpret conversations they have
- more likely to interpret a comment as criticism
- expect others will dislike them
- cut conversations short or avoid them altogether
- do not hold unrealistically high standards for themselves
what makes people socially anxious
- genetics –> shows up early in life
- learning –> learn evaluation apprehension
- more reactive amygdala (e.g. to unfamiliar faces)
- elevated cortisol
- hypervigilance to stimuli (social and non-social)
what are 7 steps to overcoming shyness
- show up
- give yourself credit
- take baby steps
- give unto others (give them your attention)
- exude warmth
- anticipate failure
- join the crowd
what does a fully developed self concept help people with
- provide person with sense of continuity
- framework for understanding past and present
- guides future behaviour
- organizes and provides coherence in ways we experience the self
self schema
- specific knowledge structure (or cognitive representation) of self concept
- networks of associated building blocks of self concept
- refer to past and current aspects of the self
possible selves
- meany ideas people have about who they might become, who they hope to become, or who they fear they will become
- can influence person’s behaviour –> what decisions will be made to achieve this possible self
- can move us towards self improvement
- can activate intense feelings/emotions
ideal self vs ought self
- ideal = what you want to be
- ought = what others want you to be
–> both are “self-guides”, standards to organize info and motivate appropriate behaviour