Chapter 11 Flashcards
What is the self?
All things that make you you
What are the three different parts of the self?
Self-knowledge, Self-concept, and Self-esteem
What is self-concept?
Overall knowledge or perception of who they are; it is domain specific
What is self-esteem?
Global evaluation of the self; aka self-image or self-worth
What is self-knowledge/self-understanding?
Child’s cognitive representation of the self
What is a possible self?
What an individual might become, would like to become, and is afraid of becoming
Give an example showing the differences between self-esteem and self-concept.
Self-esteem: good feeling about themselves; macro level– “I am a good person”
Self-concept: domain specific and achievement oriented– “I am good at football but not at school”
Why is it important for a child to understand the self?
Develops the personality, understand their own needs, identify the skills they need to be successful in life, manage emotions responsibly, achieve goals, maintain a strong social network…
How do we learn self-understanding as a child?
Through roles and memberships (family,culture)
Does the self-understanding change over time?
Yes
What are 2 milestones of self-understanding that occur during infancy?
- Mirror self-recognition (3 to 18 months)
- Telegraphic speech with self-recognition (2 years)
What is the mirror technique?
Putting something on nose results in child touching their nose when looking into a mirror
What is self-recognition with regards to the mirror technique?
understanding they are their own reflection instead of it being a kid trapped inside mirror
What is telegraphic speech with self-recognition?
Two-worded speech made up of “Me” phrases such as “me big”
What are 5 milestones of self-understanding that occur during early childhood?
- Confusion of self, body, mind
- Concrete descriptions
- Physical descriptions
- Active descriptions
- Unrealistic positive overestimations
LOTS OF I and MINE phrases
What is confusion of self, mind, and body?
No separation from themself and body; describing the self as size, shape, or colors
What are concrete descriptions?
Describing the obvious; “I know my ABCs” or “I live in a big house”
What are physical descriptions?
Distinguishing themselves from others physically; “I am different from Sarah because I have brown hair while Sarah has red hair”
What are active descriptions?
Describe themselves by their actions
What are unrealistic positive overestimations?
“I am spiderman”
What are 4 milestones of self-understanding of middle and late childhood?
- Increased psychological characteristics and traits
- Increased social comparison
- Inclusion of social references in self-descriptions
- Real self vs ideal self
What are psychological characteristics and traits that are more commonly used?
I am popular, I am nice, I am mean, I am smart
What is social comparison?
What they can do compared to others
What is real versus ideal self?
Understanding their actual competencies and what they aspire to have
Why is the adolescence self-understanding development complex?
Compare themselves with others goes up but they internalize it instead of vocalizing it
What are the milestones of self-understanding in adolescence?
- Abstract thinking
- Self-consciousness
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