Ch 11 Flashcards
What of a person is strongly related to the quantity and quality of contacts with friends
life satisfaction
Although some theorists assume that young adults have more friends than do middle aged or other adults. Why has it been difficult to test this assumption properly
- lack of longitudinal data
- no agreement on the definition of friendship
What are the three broad themes of adult friendship
- an affective basis of friendship
- communal nature of friendship
- sociability of friendship
What are the gender differences of friendship
- men do things together while women talk together
What do women tend to base friendships on
- more intimate sharing and confiding in others
What do men tend to base their friendships on
- shared interest or activities
What do mens friendship tend to involve
- less sharing and more competition
Do men or women tend to have more close friends
women
What might cross sexed relationships help men with
their capacity for intimacy
What were the three basic components of love that Robert Sternberg found
- passion
- intimacy
- commitment
When al three components of love are combined in all possible ways what do you end up with
- the seven sub varieties of love
physical desire
passion
need to share thoughts and actions
intimacy
willingness to stay with someone during good and bad ways
commitment
The theory of assortative mating suggest that people find partners based on what
similarity
the degree to which people are similar
homogamy
Where is it found where homogamy is the greatest
between partners that met in school or some religious setting
What have studies found about preference that women have of men in relationships
- more masculine for shorter term relationships
- more feminine for husbands or someone their parents would want them to date
What percentage of men and women are single through the ages of 20 and 24
- men 80%
- women 70%
Who remain single for longer
men
Twice as many African Americans as European Americans are what throughout adulthood
single
Young adults may perceive married people as what
- caring
- kind
- giving
What are the positives of being permanent single in both men and women
- flexible schedules
- freedom
- career
What are the negatives in women of being permanently single
- more likely to be mugged raped burglarized and taken advantage of at work
What are the negatives in men of being permanently single
- higher mortality rates suicide and alcoholism
What are the negatives in both women and men of being permanently single
- feel lonely get fed up with dating less sense of security
What are the three decisions to cohabit
- part time or limited cohabitation
- premaritally cohabitation
- substitute marriage
- usually for convenience and accessibility
- no long term commitment
- marriage is not the goal
part time or limited cahabitation
- usually a trial marriage and if it doesn’t end in marriage the couple splits up
premarital cohabitation
- a long term commitment without legal marriage
- more common with older couples who may lose financial benefits if they marry
substitute marriage
What does research in cohabitation suggest?
- it does not increase the chances of a successful marriage
- more recent research shows lessoning of the negative effect
Most research shows similar issues for marriages between what
homosexual and heterosexual couples