Basics of Communication Flashcards
Norm
a rule of what behavior is acceptable in a given situation
Three types of norms
Folkways, Mores, and Taboos
Folkways
social rules to which people generally conform despite minimal pressure to do so, not a big deal if you break them
Ex: you should wear matching socks
Mores
strongly held norms
Ex: adults running around naked in their front yard
Taboos
extremely strongly held norms
-often laws against such action
Ex: having sex with a family member (incest) or a dead person (necrophilia)
Examples of norms in dating
- Normative to be gracious when turned down
- Negotiating prices on a first date breaks a folkway.
Types of pick-up lines (5)
Friendly: “Would you mind some conversation while we wait?”
Offbeat: “Do you think we’re ever going to switch to the metric system?”
Humorous: “So what’s a nice girl like you doing in an elevator like this?”
Altar: “You look just like my third husband” (only had two)
Seductive: “You’re the sexiest woman in the room.”
The S-E-M-C-D-R Model
S (source)
E (encoder)
M (message)
C (channel)
D (decoder)
R (receiver)
Source
the person from which the idea is communicated
Encoder
takes the idea and puts it into some form that someone else will understand (source and encoder are the same person)
Decoder
translates the idea into thought (decoder and receiver are the same person) e.g. hearing and reading
Channel
the medium in which a message is sent
Ex: television, radio, telephone, text
Receiver
person who receives the message being sent
A message has three aspects:
- Message Code
- Message Content
- Message Treatment
Message Code
a shared symbol system (“code” = “form)
Ex: language, morse code, colors (such as in a traffic light), facial expressions, how you dress, sirens, sounds, music