Brainscape's Knowledge GenomeTM

Browse over 1 million classes created by top students, professors, publishers, and experts.


See full index

HECOL 211 > Attraction, Love & Relationship, Communication > Flashcards

Attraction, Love & Relationship, Communication Flashcards

1
Q

Greek Heritage

A

the greeks distinguished four concepts related to the modern meaning of love

How well did you know this?
1
Not at all
2
3
4
5
Perfectly
2
Q

Storge

A

is love attachment, deep, friendship, or nonsexual affection

How well did you know this?
1
Not at all
2
3
4
5
Perfectly
3
Q

Agape

A

is similar to generosity and charity

How well did you know this?
1
Not at all
2
3
4
5
Perfectly
4
Q

Philia

A

is closest in meaning to friendship

How well did you know this?
1
Not at all
2
3
4
5
Perfectly
5
Q

Eros

A

is closest in meaning to our concept of passion

How well did you know this?
1
Not at all
2
3
4
5
Perfectly
6
Q

Styles of Love

A

Clyde and Susan Hendrick - 1986

How well did you know this?
1
Not at all
2
3
4
5
Perfectly
7
Q

Romantic love (eros)

A

“my lover fits my ideal”; “my lover and i were attracted to one another immediately”

How well did you know this?
1
Not at all
2
3
4
5
Perfectly
8
Q

Game-playing love (ludus)

A

“I keep my lover up in the air about my commitment”; I get over love affairs pretty easily.”

How well did you know this?
1
Not at all
2
3
4
5
Perfectly
9
Q

Friendship (storge, philia)

A

“the best love grows out of an enduring friendship”

How well did you know this?
1
Not at all
2
3
4
5
Perfectly
10
Q

Logical love (pragma)

A

“I consider a lover’s potential in life before committing myself.”; “I consider whether my lover will be a good parents.”

How well did you know this?
1
Not at all
2
3
4
5
Perfectly
11
Q

Possessive, excited love (mania)

A

“I get so excited about my love that I cannot sleep.”; “When my lover ignores me, I get sick all over.”

How well did you know this?
1
Not at all
2
3
4
5
Perfectly
12
Q

Selfless love (agape)

A

“I would do anything I can to help my lover.”; “My lover’s needs and wishes are more important than my own.”

How well did you know this?
1
Not at all
2
3
4
5
Perfectly
13
Q

Application Of Social-Influence Theory

A

Attractiveness,
Trustworthiness,
Competence

How well did you know this?
1
Not at all
2
3
4
5
Perfectly
14
Q

Attractiveness

A

appearance - character-profession

How well did you know this?
1
Not at all
2
3
4
5
Perfectly
15
Q

Trustworthiness

A

confidentiality, credibility, appropriate. & also is a use of power

How well did you know this?
1
Not at all
2
3
4
5
Perfectly
16
Q

Competence

A

: related to role, reputation, behaviour, accomplishment

17
Q

Sternberg’s Triangular Theory of Love

A

Intimacy, Passion, Decision/Commitment

18
Q

Intimacy

A

the experience of warmth toward another person that arises from feelings of closeness, bondedness, and connectedness to the other

19
Q

Passion

A

an intense romantic or sexual desire for another person, which is accompanied by physiological arousal.

20
Q

Decision/Commitment

A

a component of love that involves both short-term and long-term issues.

21
Q

There’s 8 kinds of Love Relationships

A
  1. non-love: nothing
  2. liking: intimacy
  3. infatuation: passion
  4. empty love: commitment
  5. romantic love: intimacy & passion
  6. fatuous love: commitment & passion
  7. companionate love: commitment & intimacy
  8. consummate love: commitment, intimacy & passion
22
Q

ABC(DE)s of Romantic Relationships

A 
A’s Attraction
B’s Building 		
C’s Continuation 
D’s Deterioration 	
E’s Ending
23
Q

Types of Love

A

Passionate Love, Compassionate Love

24
Q

Passionate Love

A
  • Emotionally very intense
  • The focus of one’s life
  • Highly sexualized feelings
  • Sexual activity may be present or absent
  • Fear of rejection
  • Relationship feels unstable
25
Q

Compassionate Love

A
  • Emotionally less intense
  • A focus of one’s life
  • Less highly sexualized feelings
  • Sexual activity may be present or absent
  • Emotional trust
  • Relationship feels strong and stable
26
Q

Rejection of Intimacy

A

Fears, Inappropriate Time

27
Q

Fears in Intimacy

A

being controlled or possessed by another & being loved then left alone

28
Q

Inappropriate Time in Intimacy

A

after break up of close relationship & emotional or physical trauma

29
Q

What are some Myths of Relationships

A
  • Relationships will make you feel complete and whole.
  • Your partner should change for you if he/she really loves you.
  • If you truly love each other, romance should continue to flourish.
  • Your partner should understand you.
  • Any differences should always be negotiated.
  • In a good relationship, the partners have identical dreams and goals.
  • A relationship must be stable in order to be healthy.
  • The more open you are with your partner, the more satisfying the relationship.
  • If you are not feeling fulfilled, you relationship must be at fault.
  • Sexual disinterest is inevitable in a long-term relationship.
30
Q

Fear of speaking out

A

afraid of sounding silly or being rejected

31
Q

Fear of fighting

A

belief that fighting means relationship cannot work

32
Q

Fear of intimacy

A

unable to reveal inner self, afraid of ridicule or rejection

33
Q

Fear of commitment

A

afraid of failure, difficulty saying no, lack of confidence

34
Q

Power struggles are characterized by such issues as…

A

Who gets to right?, Who has to be wrong?, Whose problem is this?, What process are we going to use to solve problems?, Who has the power to end the relationship?

35
Q

Procedure Settings…?

A
  1. Establish agreement on what you want to talk about
  2. Clarify whose issue it is
  3. Determine who is involved
  4. Pick a suitable time - include length of time & method of termination
  5. Select an appropriate location

HECOL 211 (16 decks)

Brainscape helps you reach your goals faster, through stronger study habits.
© 2024 Bold Learning Solutions. Terms and Conditions