9 LOVE + SEXUALITY Flashcards
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ados in ASIAN CULTURES tend to have first romantic relationship ___ than other cultures
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LATER
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- RECREATION (fun/enjoyment)
- LEARNING (becoming more skilled at romantic interactions)
- STATUS (impressing others w high-status partner)
- COMPANIONSHIP (sharing activities w smn else)
- INTIMACY (close emotional relationship)
- COURTSHIP (seeking steady partner)
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REASONS TO FORM LOVE RELATIONSHIPS IN ADO
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EARLY/LATE ADOS: most important reason for relationships = ___ followed by ___ then ___
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RECREATION; INTIMACY; STATUS
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COLLEGE STUDENTS: most important reason for relationships = ___ followed by ___ then ___ then ___
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INTIMACY; COMPANIONSHIP; RECREATION; STATUS
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MIDDLE ADO BOYS: ___ ___ = most preferred quality in romantic partner
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PHYSICAL ATTRACTIVENESS
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MIDDLE ADO GIRLS: ___/___ = most preferred quality in romantic partner
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SUPPORT/INTIMACY
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LATE ADO BOYS + GIRLS: ___/___/___/___/___ = most preferred qualities in romantic partner
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SUPPORT/INTIMACY/COMMUNICATION/COMMITMENT/PASSION
8
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does physical maturation predict dating habits?
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NO
9
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- ados in SAME-SEX groups join OPPOSITE-SEX groups to hang out in public places
- ados take part in social events organized in adults + develop crushes
- MIXED-SEX groups go to movies together + relationships = short-lived
- ados begin to hang out in pairs + romantic relationships = more adult-like
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4 PHASES OF ROMANTIC RELATIONSHIP DEVMT IN ADO
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unwritten set of cultural rules/expectations transmitted thru fam/media/education
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SOCIAL SCRIPTS
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cog models that guide DATING interactions
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DATIN GSCRIPTS
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DATING SCRIPT based on characteristics of INDIVIDUALISM + MALE CHARACTERISTICS
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PROACTIVE SCRIPT
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DATING SCRIPT based on characteristics of INTERDEPENDENCE + FEMALE CHARACTERISTICS
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REACTIVE SCRIPT
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males follow a ___ DATING SCRIPT + females follow a ___ DATING SCRIPT
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PROACTIVE; REACTIVE
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- ados in relationships = MORE POPULAR
- more POSITIVE self-image
- more SOCIAL-ACCEPTANCE/FRIENDSHIP CONFIDENCE/ROMANTIC COMPETENCE
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POSITIVE OUTCOMES OF RELATIONSHIPS IN ADO
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- GIRLS: serious relationship = related to DEPRESSED mood bc under bf’s pressure to participate in sex before ready
- romantic experience = related to greater substance use/delinquent bhvr
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NEGATIVE OUTCOMES OF RELATIONSHIPS IN ADO
17
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principle in social science of INTERPERSONAL ATTRACTION that ppl like to find in others an AGREEMENT/CONSENSUS w their own characteristics/views of life
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CONSENSUAL VALIDATION
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- INITIATION PHASE
- STATUS PHASE
- AFFECTION PHASE
- BONDING PHASE
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BROWN’S 4 PHASES IN THE DEVMTL MODEL OF ADO LOVE
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PHASE OF ADO LOVE that involves first romantic explorations which are superficial + brief w lots of fear/anxiety/excitement
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INITIATION PHASE
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PHASE OF ADO LOVE in which ados gain confidence in romantic interactions, begin to form first romantic relationships + assess how status w friends/peers would be influenced by relationship
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STATUS PHASE
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PHASE OF ADO LOVE in which ados express deeper feelings for each other + engage in more extensive sexual activity
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AFFECTION PHASE
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PHASE OF ADO LOVE in which romantic relationship becomes more serious + partners discuss potential lifelong commitment to each other
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BONDING PHASE
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attachment styles btwn lovers resemble ___-___ attachment styles
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PARENT-CHILD
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ATTACHMENT STYLE btwn lovers characterized by EMOTIONAL SUPPORT + CONCERN for partner’s wellbeing
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SECURE ATTACHMENT STYLE
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ATTACHMENT STYLE btwn lovers characterized by EXCESSIVE DEPENDENCY on one partner or EXCESSIVE DISTANCING
INSECURE ATTACHMENT STYLE
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theory that diff types of love involve combining 3 fundamental qualities of love in diff ways
STERNBERG'S THEORY OF LOVE
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1. PASSION
2. INTIMACY
3. COMMITMENT
STERNBERG'S 3 FUNDAMENTAL QUALITIES OF LOVE
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FUNDAMENTAL QUALITY OF LOVE: physical attraction + sexual desire
PASSION
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FUNDAMENTAL QUALITY OF LOVE: feelings of closeness + emotional attachment
INTIMACY
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FUNDAMENTAL QUALITY OF LOVE: pledge to love someone over long run thru ups + downs
COMMITMENT
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1. LIKING
2. INFATUATION
3. EMPTY LOVE
4. ROMANTIC LOVE
5. COMPASSIONATE LOVE
6. FATUOUS LOVE
7. CONSUMMATE LOVE
7 FORMS OF LOVE (COMBOS OF 3 QUALITIES OF LOVE)
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FORM OF LOVE:
INTIMACY (NO PASSION/COMMITMENT)
LIKING
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FORM OF LOVE:
PASSION (NO INTIMACY/COMMITMENT)
INFATUATION
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FORM OF LOVE:
COMMITMENT (NO PASSION/INTIMACY)
EMPTY LOVE
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FORM OF LOVE:
PASSION + INTIMACY (NO COMMITMENT)
ROMANTIC LOVE
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FORM OF LOVE:
INTIMACY + COMMITMENT (NO PASSION)
COMPASSIONATE LOVE
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FORM OF LOVE:
PASSION + COMMITMENT (NO INTIMACY)
FATUOUS LOVE
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FORM OF LOVE:
PASSION + INTIMACY + COMMITMENT
CONSUMMATE LOVE
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form of love in most friendships
LIKING LOVE
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form of love that involves a lot of emotional arousal + sexual desire but NO emotional closeness/commitment
INFATUATION LOVE
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form of love that applies to a couple married for long time who have LOST PASSION/INTIMACY or to ARRANGED MARRIAGES
EMPTY LOVE
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form of love where ppl SAY they're "in love" + it is intense + joyful but RARELY lasts long
ROMANTIC LOVE
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form of love that applies to
- marriage/long term couples whose PASSION has DECR but who have MAINTAINED other qualities of love
- unusually close friendships/close fam relationships
COMPASSIONATE LOVE
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form of love that applies to WHIRLWIND courtships where 2 ppl meet, fall passionately in love + get married too fast before getting to fully know each other
FATUOUS LOVE
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ideal form of love for many ppl that involves PASSION, INTIMACY + COMMITMENT (despite these qualities potentially fading out)
CONSUMMATE LOVE
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QUALITY of love that = MISSING for ADOS
COMMITMENT
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QUALITY of love that only develops during EMERGINg ADULTHOOD
COMMITMENT
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ADOS rated ___/___/__ as MOST VALUES dimensions in relationships + ___ as LOW VALUE
COMPANIONSHIP/INTIMACY/SUPPORT; SECURITY
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1. INFATUATION (PASSION no intimacy/commitment)
2. ROMANTIC LOVE (PASSION/INTIMACY no commitment)
2 PRINCIPLE TYPES OF ADO LOVE
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WOMEN = ___ likely to break up w men
MORE
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1. no common interests
2. communication probs
3. conflicting sexual attitudes
4. conflicting marriage ideas
5. diff background
6. one partner wanted to be independent
7. one partner = bored
8. other partner wanted to be independent
9. other partner = bored
10. partner = interested in someone else
10 MOST COMMON REASONS FOR BREAKING UP (SPRECHER)
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unwanted pursuit of ex-partner (attempt to continue dating someone after they have clearly indicated desire to end relationship)
ROMANTIC HARRASSMENT
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living w romantic partner OUTSIDE marriage
COHABITATION
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COHABITATION before marriage = ___ likelihood of later divorce
HIGHER
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1. MUTUAL ATTRACTION
2. DEPENDABLE CHARACTER
3. EMOTIONAL STABILITY/MATURITY
4. DESIRE FOR HOME/CHILDREN
5. EDUCATION/INTELLIGENCE
MALES' TOP 5 MOST IMPORTANT TRAITS IN A MATE
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1. MUTUAL ATTRACTION
2. DEPENDABLE CHARACTER
3. EMOTIONAL STABILITY/MATURITY
4. EDUCATION INTELLIGENCE
5. PLEASING DISPOSITION
FEMALES' TOP 5 MOST IMPORTANT TRAITS IN A MATE
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marriage typical in TRAD cultures in which marriage partners = determined by others (usually parents/fam elders)
ARRANGED MARRIAGE
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desirability of marriage btwn prospective bride/groom = decided by each fam on basis of other fam's:
1.
2.
3.
1. STATUS
2. RLGN
3. WEALTH
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___ INCR extent to which young ppl value INDIV CHOICE/PURSUIT OF HAPPINESS
GLOBALIZATION
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marriage in which parents influence mate selection fo children but do not decide without child's consent
SEMI-ARRANGED MARRIAGE
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not just bio sex devmt but also sexual beliefs/values/thoughts/feelings/relationships/bhvr
SEXUALITY
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smth ados develop that = sense of who they are as a sexual being
SEXUAL IDENTITY
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1. SEXUAL SELF-ESTEEM
2. SEXUAL SELF-EFFICACY
3. SEXUAL SELF-IMAGE
3 COMPONENTS OF SEXUAL IDENTITY
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ppls perception of their WORTH as a sexual being
SEXUAL SELF-ESTEEM
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ppls CONFIDENCE in MASTERY/CONTROL of sexual activities
SEXUAL SELF-EFFICACY
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ppls perception of SEXUALITY + beliefs abt SEXUAL NEEDS
SEXUAL SELF-IMAGE
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1. SEXUALLY NAIVE
2. SEXUALLY COMPETENT
3. SEXUALLY ADVENTUROUS
4. SEXUALLY DRIVEN
4 SEXUAL STYLES TAKEN BY ADOS IN DEVELOPIGN SEXUAL IDENTITIES
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SEXUAL STYLE:
- LACK of confidence in sexual attractiveness
- LITTLE control over sexual situations
- usually YOUNGER girls who are inexperienced
SEXUALLY NAIVE
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SEXUAL STYLE:
- CONFIDENT in sexual appeal
- CONFIDENT in ability to control sexual situation
- older + more experienced
SEXUALLY COMPETENT
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SEXUAL STYLE:
- CONFIDENT in sex appeal
- CONFIDENT in ability to control sexual situation
- older + more experienced
SEXAULLY COMPETENT
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SEXUAL STYLE:
- HIGHLY confident in sex appeal
- HIGHLY confident in ability to take charge in sexual situation
SEXUALLY ADVENTUROUS
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SEXUAL STYLE:
- HIGHLY confident in sex appeal
- UNABLE to control sexual situations by saying NO to sex whether they find partner attractive or not
- usually SEXUALLY ACTIVE BOYS
SEXUALLY DRIVEN
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avg age of 1ST intercourse in Canada
16 yo
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- early users of DRUGS/ALC
- grown up in POVERTY
- from SINGLE-PARENT fams
ADOS WHO HAVE EARLY SEXUAL INTERCOURSE
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- greater PARENTAL SUPPORT/CONTROL/MONITORING
- ado GIRLS who have CLOSE relationships w mothers
ADOS WHO HAVE LATER SEXUAL INTERCOURSE
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1. RESTRICTIVE
2. SEMIRESTRICTIVE
3. PERMISSIVE
3 TYPES OF APPROACHES TO ADO SEXUALITY
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cultures that place strong PROHIBITIONS on ado sexual activity before marriage = ___
RESTRICTIVE
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2 diff sets of rules for sexual bhvr, one applying to males + the other to females w the rules for females being MORE RESTRICTIVE
DOUBLE STD
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cultures that have prohibitions on PREMARITAL SEX but prohibitions = NOT STRONGLY ENFORCED + EASILY evaded = ___
SEMIRESTRICTIVE
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cultures that ENCOURAGE/EXPECT sexual activities from ados = ___
PERMISSIVE
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guidelines abt expectations of bhvr in sexual situations
SEXUAL SCRIPTS
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___ SEXUAL SCRIPT has motivations for EMOTIONAL CLOSENESS/INTIMACY/LOVE
FEMALE
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___ SEXUAL SCRIPT involves DOMINANCE + RISK-TAKING motivations for PHYSICAL/NON-EMOTIONAL satisfaction
MALE
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1. withdrawing in order to avoid prob
2. compromise
2 MOST COMMON WAYS ADOS MANAGE SEXUAL CONFLICT
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wide range of threatening/aggressive bhvrs related to sexuality
SEXUAL HARRASSMENT
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act of sexual aggression in which person (usually woman) - FORCED by romantic partner/date/etc to have sexual relations AGAINST HER WILL
SEXUAL ASSAULT/COERCION
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__ ado boys + girls report SEXUAL ASSAULT
1/3
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SEXUAL ASSAULT = most common for age ___-___ FEMALES
15-24
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attraction indivs feel for members of SAME/OPPOSITE sex
SEXUAL ORIENTATION
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process of acknowledging own HOMOSEXUALITY + disclosing it to FRIENDS/FAM/OTHERS
COMING OUT
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awareness of LGBT sexual identity begins in ___ ___
EARLY ADO
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ado SEXUAL ORIENTATION/IDENTITY results from complex mix of ___ + ___ FACTORS
ENVMTL + GENETIC
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core reason for NOT using contraception = when sex = ___/___
UNPLANNED/INFREQUENT
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- LATER teen years
- ongoing relationship w partner
- doing well in school
ADOS WHO ARE MORE LIKELY TO USE CONTRACEPTION
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PEAK period for STIs = in ___ ___
EMERGIN ADULTHODO
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1. SYMPTOMATIC
2. LATENCY PERIOD
2 GENERAL CHARACTERISTICS OF STIs
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infected person shows NO SYMPTOMS of disease but can potentially infect others means they are ___
ASYMPTOMATIC
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period common w STIs btwn time person = infected w disease + time symptoms appear
LATENCY PERIOD
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FEMALES age ___-___ = 2X as likely as male peers to report being diagnosed w STI
15-24
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1. CHLAMYDIA
2. GONORRHEA
3. SYPHILIS
3. HIV
4 MAJOR STIs
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rate of intercourse = ___ for LESBIAN/BI/QUESTIONING girls due to SOCIAL ISOLATION/POOR SELF-IMAGE
HIGHER
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sex education programs that begin at early age + include detailed info on sexual devmt/bhvr w easy access to contraception for ados who choose to become sexually active
COMPREHENSIVE SEXUALITY EDUCATION
