7 FAM RELATIONSHIPS Flashcards

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approach to understanding fam functioning that emphasized how EACH relationship within the fam influences the fam AS A WHOLE

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FAMILY SYSTEMS APPROACH

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relationship btwn 2 persons

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DYADIC RELATIONSHIP

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  1. each subsystem influences every other subsystem in a fam
  2. any time there is a change in any fam member/subsystem: a period of DISEQUILIBRIUM/IMBALANCE results
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2 KEY PRINCIPLES OF FAM SYSTEMS APPROACH

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a change that requires adjustments from fam members

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DISEQUILIBRIUM

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  1. change in parents (at midlife)
  2. sib relationships
  3. extended fam relationships
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3 ASPECTS OF FAM SYSTEM

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MIDLIFE: parents + emerging adults enter 40s which comes w a ___ in ENERGY/PHYSICAL HEALTH/CREATIVITY/PHYSICAL ATTRACTIVENESS + an ___ in WISDOM/COMPETENCE/PSYCH HEALTH/RESPECT FROM OTHERS

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DECR; INCR

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popular belief that most ppl experience a crisis when they reach age 40 that involves intensive REEXAMINATION of lives + sudden dramatic changes if DISSATISIFED

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MIDLIFE CRISIS

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adjustments parents need to make in midlife when youngest child leaves home

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EMPTY-NEST SYNDROME

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overall life satisfaction ___ for parents when their ados/emerging adults LEAVE nest

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IMPROVES

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  1. CAREGIVER RELATIONSHIP
  2. BUDDY RELATIONSHIP
  3. CRITICAL RELATIONSHIP
  4. RIVAL RELATIONSHIP
  5. CASUAL RELATIONSHIP
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5 COMMON PATTERNS IN ADO’S RELATIONSHIPS W SIBS

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SIB RELATIONSHIP where 1 sib serves PARENTAL FUNCTIONS for other(s) (most common btwn OLDER SIS + younger sibs)

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CAREGIVER RELATIONSHIP

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SIB RELATIONSHIP where sibs treat each other as FRIENDS

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BUDDY RELATIONSHIP

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SIB RELATIONSHIP that involves HIGH level of CONFLICT/TEASING

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CRITICAL RELATIONSHIP

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SIB RELATIONSHIP where sibs COMPETE against each other + measure their success against one another

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RIVAL RELATIONSHIP

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SIB RELATIONSHIP that = NOT EMOTIONALLY INTENSE + sibs have LITTLE to do w one another

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CASUAL RELATIONSHIP

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SIBLING CONFLICT = ___ in ado than at younger ages

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LOWER

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17
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patterns of practice that parents exhibit in relation to children

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PARENTING STYLES

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typical cultural practices/beliefs underlying it

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CUSTOM COMPLEXES

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PARENTING STYLES = ___ ___

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CUSTOM COMPLEXES

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  1. DEMANDINGNESS
  2. RESPONSIVENESS
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2 DIMENSIONS OF PARENTING STYLES

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DIMENSION OF PARENTING STYLE: degree to which parents set down rules/expectations for bhvr + require children to comply w them

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DEMANDINGNESS

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DIMENSION OF PARENTING STYLE: degree to which parents = sensitive to their children’s needs + express love/warmth/concern for them

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RESPONSIVENESS

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PARENTING STYLE:
- HIGH DEMANDINGNESS
- HIGH RESPONSIVENESS

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AUTHORITATIVE

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PARENTING STYLE:
- HIGH DEMANDINGNESS
- LOW RESPONSIVENESS

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AUTHORITARIAN

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PARENTING STYLE: - LOW DEMANDINGNESS - HIGH RESPONSIVENESS
PERMISSIVE
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PARENTING STYLE: - LOW DEMANDINGNESS - LOW RESPONSIVENESS
DISENGAGED
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- parents explain reasons for rules + expectations - willing to engage in discussion w ados - establish appropriate balance btwn CONTROL + AUTONOMY - warm + loving (respond to children's needs/desires)
ATTRIBUTES OF AUTHORITATIVE PARENTING
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- parents require obedience from children + punish disobedience - do not allow discussion of rules - expect commands to be followed - show little warmth/love
ATTRIBUTES OF AUTHORITARIAN PARENTING
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- parents have FEW clear expectations for children - rarely discipline children - concerned that discipline/rules may damage children's healthy creative tendencies - lots of love, warmth + freedom
ATTRIBUTES OF AUTHORITARIAN PARENTING
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- parents try to minimize time/emotion spent on parenting - have few expectations - show little warmth/love - little emotional attachment
ATTRIBUTES OF DISENGAGED PARENTING
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ADOS OF ___ PARENTS TEND TO BE: - independent - creative - self-assured - socially skilled
AUTHORITATIVE
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ADOS OF ___ PARENTS TEND TO BE: - more dependent - passive - conforming - fearful
AUTHORITARIAN
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ADOS OF ___ PARENTS TEND TO BE: - irresponsible - conforming - immature - lacking self reliance - have poor work habits
PERMISSIVE
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ADOS OF ___ PARENTS TEND TO BE: - impulsive - no self-control - delinquent - early sex/drugs
DISENGAGED
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quality of being INDEPENDENT/SELF-SUFFICIENT + capable of thinking for oneself
AUTONOMY
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AUTHORITATIVE parents ___ AUTONOMY in a ___ way
PROMOTE; POSITIVE
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AUTHORITARIAN parents ___ AUTONOMY
DISCOURAGE
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PERMISSIVE/DISENGAGED parents ___ AUTONOMY in a ___ way
PROMOTE; NEGATIVE
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parents recognize that ___ AUTONOMY means that ado requires ___ warmth/affection
INCR; LESS
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concept of fam life characteristic of LATINO cultures that emphasizes the loves/closeness/mutual obligations of fam life
FAMILISMO
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concept that children = not only affected by their parents by that they affect their parents in turn
RECIPROCAL/BIDIRECTIONAL EFFECTS OF PARENTING ON ADOS
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when parents' bhvr differs towards sibs within same fam
DIFFERENTIAL PARENTING
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influences experience differently among siblings within the same fam
NONSHARED ENVMTL INFLUENCES
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theory that attachments btwn parents + children have an evolutionary basis in the need for vulnerable young members of the species to stay in CLOSE PROXIMITY to adults who will care for/protect them
ATTACHMENT THEORY (BOWLBY)
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1. SECURE ATTACHMENT 2. INSECURE ATTACHMENT
2 GENERAL TYPES OF ATTACHMENT (AINSWORTH)
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type of attachment to caregiver in which infants use caregiver as a SECURE BASE from which to EXPLORE when all is well but seek PHYSICAL COMFORT/CONSOLATION from them when frightened/threatened
SECURE ATTACHMENT
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type of attachment to caregiver in which infants = TIMID abt exploring envmt + RESIST/AVOID caregiver when she attempts to offer comfort/consolidation
INSECURE ATTACHMENT
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person mainly responsible for caring for an infant/young child
PRIMARY CAREGIVER
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term for cog framework based on interactions in infancy w PRIMARY CAREGIVER that shapes expectations/interactions in relationships to others throughout life
INTERNAL WORKING MODEL (BOWLBY)
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quality of being EMOTIONALLY CLOSE to another person
RELATEDNESS
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according to ATTACHMENT THEORY: AUTONOMY (being capable of self-direction + RELATEDNESS (feeling close to parents emotionally) should be ___
COMPLEMENTARY
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QUALITY of ATTACHMENT = due to combo of ___ of parents + ___ of child
BHVR; TEMPERAMENT
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EMERGING ADULTS report ___ CLOSENESS + ___ NEGATIVE FEELINGS towards parents after they move out
GREATER; FEWER
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__% of emerging ados continue to live at home thru early 20s
25%
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__% emerging adults return home at least once after leaving home
40%
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EUROPEAN emerging adults tend to live at home ___ than emerging adults in North America
LONGER
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1. LOWER birth rate 2. LONGER life expectancy 3. mvmt from predominantly RURAL to URBAN residence
3 CHANGES THAT HAVE INFLUENCE FAM LIFE OVER PAST 2 CENTURIES
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emotional functions of fam pertaining to love/nurturance/attachment
AFFECTIVE FUNCTIONS
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1. INCR in divorce rate 2. INCR in proportion of children in SINGLE-PARENT households 3. INCR in prevalence of DUAL-EARNER fams
3 CHANGES OVER PAST 50 YRS
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fams in which BOTH parents = employed
DUAL-EARNER FAMILIES
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__% of marriages end in divorce before 30 yrs of marriage
41
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divorce peaks after __ yrs of marriage
3 yrs
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ados show ___ NEGATIVE EFFECTS after parents' divorce than YOUNGER children
FEWER
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outward characteristics of a fam (whether or not parents = married, etc)
FAM STRUCTURE
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quality of relationships among fam members
FAM PROCESS
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1. exposure to conflict btwn parents 2. divorce affects parenting practicies 3. incr in economic stress
3 ASPECTS OF FAM PROCESS REGARDING EFFECTS OF DIVORCE
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in 1st year after divorce mothers tend to be LESS AFFECTIONATE/MORE PERMISSIVE/LESS CONSISTENT in parenting
EXAMPLE OF HOW DIVORCE AFFECTS PARENTING PRACTICES
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arrangement in which a professional mediator helps divorcing parents negotiate an agreement that both will find acceptable
DIVORCE MEDIATION
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PHYSICAL ABUSE = MORE likely to be inflicted on ___ than on younger children
ADOS
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___ = the more likely parent to be PHYSICALLY abusive
FATHERS
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PHYSICAL ABUSE by a fam member happens in __% of ado pop
10%
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___ = the more likely children to be PHYSICALLY abused
SONS
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- fam stress/probs in parents' lives - poor fams - large fams
CAUSES OF PHYSICAL ABUSE
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- ados = more aggressive we peers/adults - more likely to be antisocial/substance users - depressions/anxiety/poor school performance - many ados = RESILIENT + grow up to be normal adults who do NOT abuse children
EFFECTS OF PHYSICAL ABUSE
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SEXUAL ABUSE = most likely to be inflicted by ___/___/___
FATHERS/STEPFATHERS/BROTHERS
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___ = the more likely children to be SEXUALLY ABUSED
DAUGHTERS
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- fathers feel INSECURE/INADEQUATE/SOCIALLY AWKWARD in relationships - fathers prefer to seek sexual satisfaction from children who are EASIER TO CONTROL - stepfather-daughter relationship
CAUSES OF SEXUAL ABUSE
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- ultimate breach of trust (exploitation) - victims experience depression/high anxiety/social withdrawal - become highly AVOIDANT or highly PROMISCUOUS in sexual bhvr - substance abuse/risk for psych disorders/suicidal thoughts - 1/3 sexually abused children demonstrate few/no symptoms
EFFECTS OF SEXUAL ABUSE
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ados in DEVELOPED countries who leave home before reaching legal adulthood due to physical/sexual abuse/fam probs
"RUNNING AWAY FROM HOME
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ados in DEVELOPING countries who leave home before reaching legal adulthood due to poverty
"STREET CHILDREN"
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children who were forced to leave home by parents
"THROWAWAYS"