9-confront your dark side Flashcards
denying the dark side
looks at richard nikson and lection loss and come back in 1968- there were two niksons when the dark side that was being seen weak and so deeply denied
idealism
be an idealist not a brutal in heart-radiate authority but compassionate
jungs shadow
this dark side is the shadow juag referred to with deep roots- the things that we conceal
shadow cycles
shadow comes fm deep bursting energy when we were born with the full emotion/then we lose it and strive to recover
shadow signs
The main sign of shadow is contradictory behavior / emotional outbursts/ denial/ accidental behavior/ over idealization
social correctness and shadow caging
in our new culture we are drives into being social correctness
when your devil/shadow has long been caged it will come out roaring
empathic behavior
top 7 emphatic traits: focus on deeds
-the tough guy: bait to over react
-the saint: paragon but shallow
-passive aggressive charmer: lash out and hurt you
-the fanatic: fever to have belief
-the rigid rationalist: try to be beyond feelings
-the snub: be different
-the extreme entrepreneur: can not listen to other no delegation
integrated human
the integrated human: they can admit to everything and be realistic - the authentic ones mix childhood and adults dark and light
4 steps for shadow
recover fm shadow 4 steps:
-see the shadow: the most difficult , you are repressing the ones you are seeing in others-lookinto your childhood and dreams and remember the feeing
-embrace the shadow: channel the energy of the shadow into positive attitudes
-explore the shadow: develop the habit of using dreams and let the mind go
-express the shadow: release your demon and be authentic human being
the man embodyment
Man as a whole is always less than what he wants to be, the less they embody their shadow in real life the dark and denser it becomes
