4-determine the strengths of people’s characters Flashcards
look far pattern of childhood and how it is projected in adulthood
c
it is our character producing ill patterns in life-
recognizing but practicing to correct
pay attention when they are challenged and see the patterns
x
people never do things just once-compulsory behavior
x
lincoln: if you want to see the man’s character give them power
x
strength of character: be resilient in adversity like metal under pressure
weak character compromises all other good characters
characters
toxic ones: lower their guard to get advantage
perfectionist: they want to oversee but not delegate
relentless rebels: vicious humor/above others
personalizer: take everything personal
drama magnet: they embroil you in their drama
big talker: wars go inside them, do no finish anything
sexualizer: everything is validation always compulsive
pamper queens: live in a lost paradise, always on their terms
pleaser: no genuine affection, passive aggressive
savior: save everyone but to gain control
easy moralizer: not treating everyone equally- no middle ground/political correctness
superior character:
brings structure to your life-do not imagine to be someone but form the character -know your limits, like a clay to play with