2-transform self love into empathy

Question 1

narcissistic spectrums lack of self image

Answer 1

we create self image but it has short comings-deep narcissists do not have this proper self image or self esteem and self love

they have to be in control in every situation

Question 2

functional narcissists

Answer 2

functional narcissist is most of us-we can channel our energy

healthy narcissist will do their work as a channel to release and emanate empathy

Question 3

4pillar of emphatic attitude:

Answer 3

-empathetic attitude: start with being ignorant towards people then discover
-catch their emotions
-mirror their emotions to give validation
-analytic empathy: don’t waste time on supreme foul

Question 4

Lincoln on men

Answer 4

Lincoln: i don’t like that man i should know him better

Question 5

deepest desire of human

Answer 5

the deepest desire for human is to get attention

Question 6

4 narcissist types:

Answer 6

control:estlien made a bond to bring them back-they are like tiger no deep relationship and when you get too close they ll bite you
-theatrical : everything they do is to gain attention at any cost-no coherence
-the couple: lack if empathy-tolstoy never felt loved fm childhood
-the mood reader: put yourself in their shoes- treat groups and individuals equally

Question 7

key to emphatic behavior

Answer 7

key to empathy understanding their value system