14-resist the downside of the group Flashcards
groups
human nature can not be changed by groups or persons i will reemerge in a different forms
enemies
forge some enemies to let people fight against especially in groups
tribal divide to gain support
people are hungry for status in the group
in large groups people divide into tribes which they support
push too hard
A things turns into its opposite if pushed too far
group setting primitive nature
in a group setting we become primitive and try to transform to group values/exaggerated emotions-respect them don’t mystify
group energy
group energy is social energy that if we go against we get anxiety - we are attracted to numbers the gathering of the clan like ancients
animal behavior in groups
group brings out animal behavior and release of self conscious and not pleasant if we think about i
distance in groups
you adjust outwardly But keep distance within playing a good actor
eyes of others
we get character by eyes of the others upon us- feelings are contagious
always distance yourself from what you want to feel and assess is consciously vs reality
group dynamics
-group culture: look for emotional tone not what they say; it has ideals and it gets stronger by time
-group alpha male like chimpanzees: use their words for flattery and make them comfortable
-type of courtiers: learn about them and don’t act out of their culture
-enemy: learn to exploit binary understanding for signs of dynamic
-factions: subgroups shares value and gives us narcissistic boost
group living organisms
be ruthlessly frank with yourself and never say a be use reasonings and be the best observer of the group as a live organism
5 characters of reality group
-sense of purpose: remind them of their mission and make them integral
-assemble the right team of lutenient: complementary individuals and lead fm front
-free flow of information:several lines of perspective and broaden their view
-infect them with productive emotions:calmness like phill jackson bulls coach; never overreact be persistent , surprise them, lack of fear and open to ideas
-gauge inner toughness and test them in adversity - battle test
-teach and learn at the same time to reach the peak of humanity