3-see thru people masks Flashcards
people are like the moon
they only show one side-put the look that elicit sympathy and compassion
be attentive for micro impressions-
pitch/pace of talking/legs/chest/head/smile/muscle tensions
this after observing their baseline impressions
how to break them
look for leakage of negative emotions , or push some of emotional feelings to them to break them
emotionally cues:
dislike-like:look for micro expressions
dominance /submissive: look for alpha attitudes
exaggerating energy is a telltale of manipulation
let them talk
reality is messy, let them talk more to reveal the mask
to emanate a an emotion
put yourself in a similar prior experience / fit your audience/ first time impression/ display mystery/ show sincerity and honesty /never let them too close- to accumulate power