7.3 Flashcards
social clock
the culturally determined psychological timepiece providing a sense of whether we have reached the major benchmarks of life at the appropriate time in comparison to our peers
intimacy-versus-isolation stage
according to Erikson, the period from postadolescence into the early thirties that focuses on developing close relationships with others
stimulus-value-role (SVR) theory
the theory that relationships proceed in a fixed order of three stages: stimulus, value, and role
stimulus stage,
relationships are built on surface, physical characteristics such as the way a person looks.
value stage
the relationship is characterized by increasing similarity of values and beliefs
role stage,
the relationship is built on specific roles played by the participants. For instance, the couple may define themselves as boyfriend–girlfriend or husband–wife.
passionate (or romantic) love
is a state of powerful absorption in someone. It includes intense physiological interest and arousal, and caring for another’s needs.
companionate love
the strong affection for those with whom our lives are deeply involved
labelling theory of passionate love
the theory that individuals experience romantic love when two events occur together: intense physiological arousal and situational cues suggesting that the arousal is due to love
Psychologist Robert Sternberg suggests that love is made up of three components:
intimacy, passion, and decision/commitment.
intimacy component
the component of love that encompasses feelings of closeness, affection, and connectedness
passion component
the component of love that comprises the motivational drives relating to sex, physical closeness, and romance
decision/commitment component
the third aspect of love that embodies both the initial cognition that one loves another person and the longer-term determination to maintain that love
homogamy
the tendency to marry someone who is similar in age, race, education, religion, and other basic demographic characteristics
marriage gradient
the tendency for men to marry women who are slightly younger, smaller, and lower in status; and women to marry men who are slightly older, larger, and higher in status