Week 4 - Families Flashcards
What is the most important function for adolescents in terms of family?
SOCIALIZATION!!!
What is socialization?
where children acquire the beliefs, motives, values, and behaviours deemed significant by a culture or subculture
Families are NOT dynamic systems. True or False?
False! They are!
What sort of relationships exist in the dynamic system of the family?
reciprocal relationships!
- parents influence the children and the children influence the parents
What can cause a disequilibrium in a family system?
“significant change in a family member of in a relationship between family members”
- puberty
- divorce
-death
What are “phase transitions” in family dynamics?
when old patterns are breaking down and new patterns are emerging
Are family dynamics always changing?
YES!
- children become more AUTONOMOUS and want more FREEDOM –> lead to conflict
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What are the two dimensions of parenting?
1.Acceptance/Responsiveness
2. Demanding/control
What makes a parent “accepting/responsive”?
- warmth
- affectionate
- receptive
- supporting
- smile, praise and encourage children
- can be critical if child misbehaving
What makes parents “demanding/controlling”?
- surpervising
- regulating
- setting limits
- actively monitoring to ensure rules are being followed
What are the 4 different types of parenting styles?
- Authoritarian
- Authoritative
- Permissive
- Uninvolved
What does “authoritarian” parenting focus on and provide an example?
- obedience
- punishment over discipline
-high demand, low warmth - ex: the mother in tangled
What does “authoritative” parenting focus on and provide an example?
- creates a positive relationship
- enforce rules rationally
- low demand, high warmth
- “gold standard”
- consider child’s point of view and acknowledges that
- tailors demands to child’s ability to regulate
-demands are realistic and allows autonomy - ex: Phill from modern family or Danny from Full House
What does “permissive” parenting focus on and provide an example?
- Don’t enforce rules
- mentality that “kids will be kids”
-more flexible - ex: mom from Mean Girls
What does “uninvolved” parenting focus on and provide an example?
- provide little guidance, nurture, or attention
-not responsive, not warm, no rules - ex: Schidt’s Creek parents
What are the child’s outcomes like from “Authoritarian” parenting?
- passive
-dependent
-weaker self-esteem