Week 10: Self-identity and Intimacy Flashcards
What are the two sides of self according to William James?
- I = the experiencing subject
- Me = beliefs about oneself as object
What is the self?
combo of physical and psychological attributes that are unique to the individual
Does your sense of self develop early or late?
Early
Towards adolescence, what do self-descriptions begin to contain more of and provide an example:
- psychological terms
ex: I am a good listener, I try to be helpful
What is self-concept?
organized set of thoughts, ideas, and perceptions that people hold about themselves
Does the self concept of an adolescent become more complex, differentiated, abstract, and integrated?
YES
What can emerge from self-concepts in adolescence?
start the think of “possible selves” –> thinking of yourself in ____ amount of years
plays a role in planning, setting priorities, and slef-regulation
During integration process of the self, can characteristics clash?
YES
What is known as the “looking glass self”?
we find out about ourselves by observing the way others respond to use in our interactions
What is known as the “generalized other”?
a person’s internalized summary of the ways others have responded to him or her in social interactions
What is self esteem?
set of positive or negative evaluations and feelings that people hold about themselves
What is baseline self esteem?
a level of positive or negative feelings about the self that is fairly STABLE overtime
What is barometric self esteem?
temporary changes in positive or negative feelings about the self that occur in response to particular incidents
ex: stumbling over a word in front of the class –> drops self esteem temporarily
What is the number one factor that contributes most strongly to self esteem?
Physical appearance
What is the second factor that contributes the most strongly to self esteem?
social acceptance
Does social acceptance of classmates or close friends have more of an influence over self esteem?
Classmates!
What can low self esteem lead to?
- low school achievement
- high aggression levels
- antisocial behaviour
- depression
-many more!
What is “identity” defined as?
psychological structure that gives people a sense of personal continuity across situations and across their individual history
What is Erik Eriksons “Identity vs Identity Diffusion” theory?
we set off an “identity crisis” to help us navigate and find our true identity
sets of questioning the beliefs that were passed down by parents
believed all teens should explore and experiment
could lead to a “psychosocial Moratorium”
What is a psychosocial moratorium?
when you are constantly exploring but nothing is sticking
“jack of all trades” but nothing vibes with them
- yes to exploration, no to committment
What is “identity foreclosure” and give an example?
- not given the freedom to experiment and explore
- thought of questioning the certainties of childhood identification is very threatening
- no exploration, yes committment
ex: my dad is a banker so I am going to be a banker
What is “identity diffusion” and provide an example?
reflects a failure to construct a coherent sense of self
- psychologically paralyzed by so many options
- No exploration, no committment
ex: the people who say “fuck it” and give up because they believe they aren’t going anywhere
How do people escape identity diffusion?
adopt a negative identity:(
What is Marcia’s theory and 4 categories of identity status?
involves the elements of:
- commitment –> choosing a belief or course of action and making a personal investment in it
- exploration in identity –> examining alternatives in a particular area of activity
- Identity diffusion
- identity foreclosure
- identity exploration
- Identity achievement
What is an example of identity achievement?
yes to exploring
yes to committing
finding your niche as a student of what I want to do and committing to exploring it further (I like OT, therefore I am going to go and explore it)
What is identity diffusion in Marcia’s Theory?
someone neither explores identity issues or commits
What is identity foreclosure in Marcia’s theory?
someone makes a committment without exploring
What is moratorium in Marcia’s Theory?
in the process of exploration but has not made committments
What are Berzonsky’s 3 identity styles?
- Diffuse-avoidant
- Normative
- Informational
What is the identity style “diffuse-avoidant” and what parenting approach and identity status is it linked to?
- avoid dealing with personal problems, conflicts and decisions by putting them off
- let situational demands dictate what they do
- parenting approach: Permissive parents
- identity status: Diffusion
What is the identity style “Normative” and what parenting approach and identity status is it linked to?
-conscientious and agreeable
- low tolerance for ambiguity (lots of variation)
- high need for structure –> taking lead from parents
- parenting approach: Authoritarian
- identity status: Foreclosed
What is the identity style “informational” and what parenting approach and identity status is it linked to?
- looks skeptically at their own views
- suspends judgement
- reevaluates conclusions about themselves
- parenting approach: Authoritative
- identity status: Achieved
What are indigenous peoples perspective on identity?
personal identity is embedded deeply in their spiritual and cultural identity
What are the 2 distinct phases of moral development based on Piaget?
- 2-7 years old –> moral realism/heteronomous morality
- 7-10 years old –> moral relativism/ autonomous morality