Stress and coping Flashcards
What makes the self?
Combination of existentialism, predisposition and society
The average person thinks they are…
Above average. People generally overestimate the positivity of their lives (positive illusion)
Humans have a positive illusion of…
Abilities, control and optimism
How do we sustain positive illusions
Self-serving bias
We remember a slightly, improved, idealised and better version of the real life version of us
Selective criticism
If the news is good, dont question it. If news is bad, they think something is wrong
Memory bias
Forget bad things and dwell on good things
Downward comparison
Comparing people who are similar but worse off than themselves (e.g. breast cancer patients: could be worse, could have both gone)
False consensus
Overestimate how many people are the same (everyone agrees with me)
False uniqueness
Underestimating how many people are the same as you (I can play the piano and not many people can so I’m unique)
People with high esteem tend to do what more than low self esteem
False uniqueness
2 benefits of high self esteem
Initiative: more confidence in their views, opinions and plans
Happiness: happier due to more resilience