Relationships Flashcards
Darwin (1871)
Theory of sexual selection.
Bernstein (2015)
Women might want a powerful/resourceful man because they have traditionally lacked political power.
Kasser and Sharma (1999)
Women value resourceful much more in cultures where they have little power and status.
Penton-Voak et al. (1999)
Female mate choice varies over the menstrual cycle. Women prefer masculine faces when they are most fertile and more feminine faces when they are least fertile.
Nettle and Clegg (2006)
Poets and artists have more sexual partners than non-creative people.
Walster and Walster (1969)
Matching hypothesis: people seek partners who’s social desirability approximates their own.
Eastwick and Finkel (2008)
Ideal partner preferences are just ideals. Actual dating behaviour showed that ideal did not consistently affect choices.
Sprecher and Hatfield (2009)
Attractiveness is just one factor; people may compensate for unattractiveness with other qualities.
Meltzer et al. (2014)
Men’s satisfaction with their wives was positively correlated to how attractive they thought their wives were. Therefore women are more motivated to retain their attractiveness to keep a marriage going.
Taylor et al. (2011)
Could not find evidence to support the matching hypothesis; participants had an overall preference for attractive partners, regardless of their own attractiveness.
Pasch and Bradbury (1998)
People were satisfied if their partner was supportive, trustworthy and warm, not just attractive.
Jourard (1971)
‘Self-disclosure’: how much people reveal about themselves.
Collins and Miller (1994)
People will like others who disclose and will self-disclose to people they like. They like disclosure even more if they think that no one else has been told.
Sprecher et al. (2013)
Level of disclosure received is a greater predictor of love than the level of self-disclosure given. People like reciprocal, turn-taking disclosure.
Sprecher (1987)
Disclosure about disappointments, accomplishments and previous sexual relationships were more effective than neutral topics.
Derlega and Grzelak (1979)
In the early stages of a relationship, self-disclosure should be not too much (indiscriminate) or too little (impersonal).
Berg and Archer (1980)
The more one person discloses, the more disclosure they expect from their partner.
Cooper and Sportolari (1997)
‘Boom and bust’ phenomenon: online, people disclose lots very quickly and so the relationship gets very intimate very fast. The lack of underlying trust that comes with an analogue relationship causes it to break down.
Tal-Or and Hershman-Shitrit (2015)
Relationship between disclosure and attraction applies to celebrities as well.
Knop et al. (2016)
Participants disclosed more offline than online.
Chen (1995)
Americans disclose more than Chinese or Japanese.
Nakanishi (1986)
Japanese women prefer low levels of disclosure whilst Japanese men prefer higher levels. This is the opposite of what happens in the West.
Kerckhoff and Davis (1962)
Filter theory: partners are chosen using a series of filters to narrow down the options.
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Before 18 months together, participants wanted similarity of attitudes, after 18 moths they wanted complimentary attitudes.
Winch (1958)
Long-term, people are attracted to those whose needs are harmonious with their own (so sometimes opposite)
Levinger et al. (1970)
Failed to replicate Kerckhoff and Davis’ findings.
Duck (1973)
Filters allow people to predict future interactions on certain topics and so they can avoid partnering with people who they will have bad interactions with.
Byrne et al. (1970)
Individuals are more likely to be attracted to people with whom they share lots of views rather than few.
Hoyle (1993)
Perceived similarity may be more important than actual similarity.
Tidwell et al. (2013)
Perceived similarity may more important than actual similarity.
Dijkstra and Barelds (2008)
Similar traits are more important in an ideal partner than complementary traits.
Thornton and Young-DeMarco (2001)
Attitudes change over time.
Thibaut and Kelley (1959)
Social exchange theory: a cost/benefit analysis but for relationships.
Kurdek and Schmitt (1986)
For heterosexual, homosexual, cohabiting and married couples: relationship satisfaction was associated with benefits of current relationship and weaknesses of alternatives.
Kurdek (1993)
Relationships become less stable if one or both partners have a low level of dependence on the relationship.