Relationships Flashcards
Sexual selection v natural
Survival of the sexiest v survival of the fittest
Anisogamy
Differences between M&F sex cells
Male gametes (sperm) = small, mobile, vast numbers
Female gametes (eggs) = large, static, limited numbers
Why are male and female gametes important in partner preference?
Gives two different mating strategies
Inter-sexual selection
Female strategy - quality over quantity
Eggs rare & harder to produce = greater energy
F makes greater investment of time for offspring
Males compete
Determines features passed down
Intra-sexual selection
Male strategy - quantity over quality
Competition between males to mate with females
Winner reproduces & passes on characteristics
Evolutionary explanations AO3 1: RS for preferences related to anisogamy
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Buss
Survey: 10,000 adults, 33 countries
Q relating to important attributes in partner preference
(F) females preferred resource-related traits; males valued looks
Evolutionary explanations AO3 2: Ignores social influences
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Pref included by changing norms of behaviour
E.g., W’s greater role in workplace = no longer depend on men to provide
F pref may no longer be resource-oriented
Evolutionary explanations AO3 3: Support from wait-hip ratio research
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Singh
Studied M body shape pref
Wider hips; narrower waist ‘honest signal’ of fertility
Evolutionary explanations AO3 4: Support for inter-sexual selection
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75% M agreed to go back to bed with unknown student
‘I have been noticing you around campus. Would you go to bed with me tonight’
F choosier than M
Self-disclosure
Revealing personal info & more and more as relationship develops
Social penetration theory
Gradual process of revealing inner self
Reciprocal exchange
Greater understanding
Trust when revealing
Onion layers
We disclose a lot at the beginning, but peel away ‘low-risk’ info
Breadth of disclosure
Narrow
Many topics ‘off-limits’ in early stages
Revealing some things too soon might threaten chances
Depth
Removing more layers to reveal intimate & high risk info
Reciprocity of self-disclosure
Needs to be a reciprocal elements
Gaining of understanding/empathy on both behalves