Psych 471 Exam #3 Flashcards
Communication
The process of sending and receiving messages, that have meaning
Intrapersonal Communication
“talking to yourself”; internal dialogue
Interpersonal Communication
And interactional process in which one person sends a message to another. This is an ACTIVE process
What is the key to interpersonal communication?
What is the key to interpersonal communication?
Sender
Relays the message.
Encodes ideas and feelings into symbold and organizes them into a message
Receiver
Takes the message in
Decodes or translates a speakers message into their own ideas and feelings
Electronically Mediated Communication
Interpersonal communication that takes place via technology
What are some good and bad things about cell phones?
Good
Increases fluidity
Talk to people far away
Safety/emergency
Bad
Distracting (reduces mind fulness)
Miscommunication/texting
Electronic leash
What are 3 etiquette rules for cell phone use in public?
- Turn it off or put it on vibrate
- Keep calls short
- Make and receive calls unobtrusively or out of earshot from others
What does it mean taht the absence of nonverbal cues in computer-mediated communication?
It means that people need to take special care that the receiver understands intended meaning. Choose words carefully, provide clarifying details, and describe your feelings.
Non-verbal communication
The transmission of meaning from one person to another through means or symbols other than words
What are some examples of nonverbal communication?
distance, facial expression, eye contact, body posture and movement, gestures, touch, voice tone
What % of human communication is conveyed via nonverbal behaviors?
60-65%
What are the 5 principles of nonverbal communication?
- Nonverbal communication conveys emotion
- Nonverbal communication is multichanneled. As compared to verbal communication has one channel (speech)
- Nonverbal communication is ambiguous
Few nonverbal signals carry universally accepted meanings - Nonverbal communications may contradict verbal messages. (generally nonverbal is accurate than verbal)
- Nonverbal communication is culture-bound (thumbs up)
Nonverbal cues are most reliable when…
Accompanied by verbal and are embedded in a familiar cultural and social context
The _____ of eye contact is its most meaningful aspect
duration
People (European Americans) with high levels of eye contacct are judged to have high….
High social skills, credibility, and competence
People are more likely to make eye contact when being (what emotion)
sincere
Gaze Adverse
Not as likely to make firm eye contact
Eye contact communicates ______ of feelings
intensity
Maintaining moderate eye contact generates (positive or negative) feelings in others?
Positive
Negative eye contact give an example and say why it is bad.
Staring. It can make people uncomfortable and can convey aggressive intent (avoid eye contact with hostile people)
Kinesics
The study of communication through body movements
Frequent touching or scratching suggests what?
nervousness
Higher status individuals look more (relaxed or tense)
relaxed
Lower status individuals look more (relaxed or tense)
tense
Tall people have advantages in terms of…
Income, education, job selection, and happiness
Tall people have caveats in…
experienceing more anger
height is not as beneficial for women
How many lies do people typically tell per day?
1-2
Most lies are what kind?
Inconsequential (white lies)
What are some reasons for more serious lies?
Gaining an advantage
Avoiding conflict (not telling partner about cheating)
Protecting someone
Harm someone (gossiping, false rumore, relational abuse, cyber bullying)
Is detecting deception easy or difficult and what is the accuracy rate?
VERY difficult; 57%
People (over or under) estimate their ability to detect liars?
Over
Lying is NOT associated with…
Talking slowly long pauses BEFORE speaking (speech latency excessive shift of posture reduced smiling lack of eye contact
What are some signs that someone may be lying?
Blink less while telling a lie then blink more after telling the lie
Speaking with a higher tone/pitch
Giving relatively short answers
Inconsistencies between facial expressions and lower body movements** (most telling sign)
Polygraph
A device that records fluctuations in physiological arousalas a person answers questions (more of an emotion detector than a lie detector)
Is the effectiveness of a lie detector supported by research?
No, because people experience emotion when telling the truth.)
What is a modern method for the polygraph?
Brain imaging technoloogy, they are more accurate, but the also raise ethical and practical problems (invasive)
Hearing
A physiological process that occurs when sound waves come into contact with our eardrums
Listening
A MINDFUL activity and complex process that requires one to select and organize information, interpret and respond to communications, and recall what one has heard (an active and deeper process)
Involves empathy, effective listening is a vastly underappreciated and underrated skill
What are four points to effective listening?
- Signal your interest in the speaker by using nonverbal cues (posture and eye contact)
- Hear the other person out before you respond
- Engage in active listening
- Pay attention to the person’s nonverba; skills
What are some subtle verbal cues?
Minimal habitual verbal utterances (mmhmm)
Repetition of key words (“…angry?”
Short confirming comment (“that makes sense”)
What are the benefits to restating?
Clients feel understood
Clients feel encourageed to continue telling their stories.
Involves no feeling word.
Give an ex of restating
Cl: “Bc I am not providing an income, I can’t express my thoughts”
Th: “As I listen to you, it seems that your unemployment is having a negative effect on you”
Reflection
A rephrasing of a client’s statements including an explicit identification of the client’s feelings. Deeper thatn a restatement
What are the intentions of reflection?
Identify/intensify feelings
Encourage catharsis
Instill hope