Pro Com Flashcards
What is Martin Buber’s theory
Genuine Dialogue
I/it -I/thou
I/it- When you use relationships as transactions or a means to an end
I/thou- When you have genuine relationships with others and have respect for other
being-seeming
Seeming is when someone is not portraying themselves as their authentic self.
Being is when someone is authentic in their portrayal of themselves to others
personal making present
-being present and there for others
-Putting others before yourself
-Being present in every situation and
unfolding/imposing
Imposing- Push your beliefs and feeling onto others
Unfolding- To have respect for others and what they do.
How can we learn to remember names?
1.) learn the name
- Repeat the name
-Discuss where it came form
-Write it down afterwards
2.) Learn the face
-look for distinctive features
3.) Link name and face
- Link distinctive feature of person to their name
How should you prepare for a job interview
1.) Prepare you resume and bring copy
2.) have portfolio, notepads, pen
3.) Be dressed professional
4.) Have questions about position
5.) Research company beforehand
What are key elements in completing job interviews
Eye contact
body posture
Body positiong
What does Derber mean by conversational narcissism?
-People who are conversational Narcissists use shift responses to keep the conversation about themselves.
Supportive vs. non-supportive responses
Support- A turn that keeps attention on topic and person
Shift-A turn that shifts attention to current speaker and creates opportunity to change topic
-Conversational Narcissist
What is mindfulness
-It means giving your full attention actively listening
-showing genuine interest in what the other person is saying.
What is contemplative computing
- We should be aware of how we are using technology so we do not become distracted by it
What are digital distractions
- Anything that is related to technology that can take our attention and focus away from other things
