Module 8: MI Microskills - Reflective Listening & Summaries Flashcards
Define reflective listening and why it is the core skill in motivational interviewing.
- Rephrasing what the client has told you
- It makes them feel heard and understood.
- Helps ensure that you are understanding them correctly.
- Can be used to guide the conversation.
Discuss when to use reflection listening.
- When you hear change talk
- When the client expresses ambivalence
- When you hear sustain talk
Discuss how to use reflection listening.
- Reflect change talk rephrase in a way that emphasizes the ability or the reason they are able to make the change being discussed
- Ambivalence – double-sided reflection rephrase their statement including their reason not to change and to change
- Reflect sustain talk rephrase in a way where they can hear their own hesitation, they may argue with you and say they still want to change (used sparingly)
List the different types of reflective statements.
- Simple
- Metaphors
- Reframing
- Continuing the paragraph
- Double-sided use
- Undershooting
- Amplified
Simple reflective statements
Rephrase or summarize their statement without adding anything
Metaphors reflective statements
- Using a metaphor in your reflection to show you understand and relate to client
- Ex: “Dieting can feel like a rollercoaster ride, before you know it you are upside-down”
Reframing reflective statements
- Reflection that highlights a different perspective, you’re still rephrasing what they said but in a way that helps them move toward change-talk
- Ex: “My doctor made me come” Practitioner: “You trust your doctor and you’re wondering how I might be able to help”
Continuing the paragraph reflective statements
- Add what is implied in the conversation
- Ex: client: “I’d like to go on walks with my sister. She is the perfect exercise buddy because she goes my pace. Her life is really busy though” Practitioner: “And you’re concerned she may not be reliable”
Double-sided use reflective statements
- Use with ambivalence
- Rephrase in a way that shows the positive and negative of what they are saying.
- End with the positive to move the conversation in that direction.
Undershooting reflective statements
- Used for further explanation, depreciates the emotion expressed to clarify what the client meant
- Ex: Client: “I hate that my husband eats whatever he wants around me when he knows I’m trying to watch what I eat” Practitioner: “You’re not crazy about your husband’s eating habits” Client: “More than that, it makes me crazy and a little resentful”
Amplified reflective statements
- Reflects back on their statement in an exaggerated way
- Ex: client: “I’m just so busy it’s hard to find time to work out and I’m so tired by the time I finish work” Practitioner: “There is just no space in the day to exercise” Client: “Well, I don’t know. Maybe I can exercise on my lunch break at work”
Define summarizing statements.
A combination of reflections that emphasize ambivalence and change talk that give clients a bird’s eye view of their thoughts and feelings about a behavior.
Describe how to use summarizing statements.
- Summarize points in the conversation where you discussed specific feelings, ambivalence, or guesses about their feelings based on verbal and nonverbal communication
- Use it for “big picture” things
Describe when to use summarizing statements.
- Communicate interest and understanding
- To highlight ambivalence
- To reinforce change talk
- To transition to a new topic or phase of the appointment
- To wrap up a session