Marriage and the Family Flashcards
What is Marriage known as in Islam?
Nikah which is a marriage contract.
Outline 3 Muslim beliefs about Marriage.
1) Allah is believed to have created man and women for each other.
2) Islam encourages people to marry, following the examples of Muhammad
3) Marriage in Islam is intended to be for life.
Outline 3 purposes on Marriage.
1) To bring a man and women together to have children
2) To share love, companionship and sex which Allah’s intention for humans
3) To create a family and strengthen society.
What is Cohabitation?
Living together while not married
Outline 3 alternatives to marriage, like cohabitation which Muslims believe.
1) Sex is only permitted within marriage
2) Marriage helps to protect the couple from any sin and temptation they might face if they were not married
3) Performing the Nikah means the relationship is taken more seriously within marriage.
What does Secular mean?
not connected with religious or spiritual matters.
Explain two reasons why Marriage is important to Muslims ( 5 marks )
1) Muhammad encourages people to marry. In the Qur’an it states ‘Marriage is my Sunnah (practice). Those who do not follow my practices do not belong to me)
2) Provides stability for children and society
Give 3 points for the statement ‘Marriage is the most important duty of a Muslim’
1) Muhammad encourages people to marry. In the Qur’an it states ‘Marriage is my Sunnah (practice). Those who do not follow my practices do not belong to me)
2) Provides stability for children and society
3) It acts as a moral safeguard and prevents Muslims from having relationship not treating sex as special.
Give 3 points against the statement ‘Marriage is the most important duty of a Muslim’
1) Following ten Obligatory acts is more important
2) 5 pillars more important
3) Helping others Zakah
Give 3 points for the statement ‘ The nikah is no longer relevant in modern day society’
1) Non - religious people do not think Marriage is not important and relevant ( this is important because if people do not take marriage ceremony seriously, them their is no point of marriage)
2) People now choose to Cohabit ( if people live together without nikah it shows it is no longer relevant)
3) 70 % of marriage ends in divorce ( this shows people are not committed and not taking the nikah seriously.
Give 3 points against the statement ‘ The nikah is no longer relevant in modern day society’
1) It is relevant to Muslims as it is a Duty ( it is seen as an act of worship towards Allah, he will judge you on how well you have brought up children)
2) Muslims believe marriage and the family provide stability for children and the society. ( allows muslims to see how to live a good life in Allah’s eyes showing Nikkah as relevant
3) Without nikah cohabitation in Islam is wrong as it is pre-martial sex ( premartial sex is haram, as it is considered as a bad act as you aren’t committed to the person)
What is Pre- martial sex?
A sexual relationship which occurs before marriage.
Outline 3 Muslim teachings about the nature of
relationships.
1) Physical (Sexual desire is natural and to fulfill that is in marriage)
2) Emotional ( Committing each themselves to each other, both husband and wife become a means of comfort for each other)
3) Spiritual ( Marriage provides an individual with a soulmate for life)
Outline 3 Muslim teachings about what sexual Relationships fufil.
1) Sex is an act of worship ( purpose of procreation, which Allah intended)
2) Sex is a gift from Allah intended so that a couple can procreate.
3) Sex only should take place within marriage
Explain two reasons why Muslims believe sexual relationships fulfill physical, emotional and spiritual needs?
Sex is natural and a marriage is the correct context for a sexual relationship to take place ( it is important for a couple to satisfy each other needs and sex allows this)
2) Sex is seen in Islam as an act of Worship ( it is what Allah intended for them to do and they will be rewarded in afterlife, therefore fulfilling their spiritual needs)
Give 3 points for the statement ‘ Sex is a gift from Allah’
1) Muslims believe sex is a gift and what Allah intended for a married couple
2) Islam teaches sex fuflils physical, emotional and spiritual needs
3) slam teaches sex is an act of worship
Give 3 points against the statement ‘Sex is a gift from Allah’
1) Society is changing and some people may believe that the idea of sex being a gift is outdated
2) Many atheists and humanists may challenge this, believing that sex is a gift for procreation but no religious basis.
3) Some may disagree, sex is a way of deepening a relationship rather than being a gift from God just for children.
What is Homosexuality?
Sexual relations between two people of same gender
Outline the Muslim belief about Adultery?
It is condemned as a Sin and punishment for it. In the Qur’an it says ‘And do not go anywhere near adultery: it is an outrage and an evil path’
Give 3 points for the statement ‘Sex before marriage is perfectly acceptable’
1) Society is becoming less religious so more people think its more okay ( if more people find it okay more people will do it)
2) Shows your committed to your partner ( having sex shows you love your partner and that is what matters)
3) Sex is an act of worship ( Allah will reward you for procreating and therefore that will help you go to Al-Jannah)
Give 3 points against the statement ‘Sex before marriage is perfectly acceptable’
1) It might spread diseases ( this means partners might be able to have baby)
2) Concentraptuion is not allowed so Muslims should only have sex during marriage to procreate( it shows commitment to your marriage as you want to take it to another step)
3) Sex should take place during marriage as it shows your committed to partner ( Allah wants you to procreate in a stable relationship)
Give 3 points for the statement ‘No Muslim should be Homosexual’
1) Main purpose of Marriage is to Procreate (therefore homosexual relationships cannot reproduce together they cannot be judged on their skills in bringing up a family)
2) Prophets influence, in the Qur’an ‘how can you practice this outrage’ ( this shows how Muslim role-models disagree and therefore others should follow as they use prophets as guidance)
3) It is a significant risk to show your homosexuality and be a Muslim (because it can lead to problems in family and Ummah)
Give 3 points against the statement ‘No Muslim should be Homosexual’
1) Allah has chosen to give free will to humans ( Allah has given freedom for people to live their own lives and so he shouldn’t have a problem with this)
2) Rise of Muslims who now support homosexuality (this shows that views about homosexuality are becoming more irrelevant as Bible is outdated)
3) Tradionational views on sex in Islam have been proven with time to be nothing but problematic ( opposing it can lead to Homophobia which is a foundation of most hate crimes who are being their natural self)
Explain two reasons why Muslims are against sexual relationships outside marriage?
1) Prevents children
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Give 3 points for the statement ‘Adultery is always wrong’
1) It is a sin (if Muslim’s commit sin they will not be able to go to paradise)
2) it ruins family’s love and relationship ( it may ruin child making them underachieve and not socialise)
3) It is condemned by God in the Qur’an. (everything condemned by God means you are likely to go to hell)
Give 3 points against the statement ‘Adultery is always wrong’
1) Society doesn’t deem adultery as a sin when a marriage breaks down. (when a marriage breaks down 2 people don’t live together anymore and can have sex with someone else)
2) One partner could be committing adultery and the other one is found out to do the same. ( this is important as adultery is something someone cant forgive and uses it against other the other person)
What is a Same sex family?
When a homosexual couple become parents, through either adoption or surrogacy
What is A single parent family?
When a parent is solely responsible for the children in the family.
What is a Extended family?
This also includes nuclear family, but the couples parents, aunts/ uncles and cousins nearby living together.
What is a Nuclear family?
Mother, father and children living as one unit.
What is a Blended family?
Two families uniting when parents meet partners.
Explain 3 types of Family?
1) Extended family
2) Nuclear family
3) Single parent