Magnetic Attraction Flashcards
Simply Be Fun
Women love funny. Laugh a lot and share it with everyone. Laugh at yourself- this shows emotional confidence and stability. Tease and seek playful interaction. Seek fun with no agenda.
Look Good
Dressing well and having your own style says that looking good is important to you, you have self-knowledge, and shows initiative and creativity. Style consultant and dating coach Ray Magin says “you want to dress one step above every guy in the room.” Aim for casually exceeding without excess.
Mix Kindness With Badass Conflict Resolution
Blending these traits takes wisdom, self-knowledge, experience, and confidence. Have the ability to show kindness and compassion as well as the ability to step up, take charge, protect, and problem solve. A women needs to believe that you could and would protect them if they were in danger. The physical ability plus the internal willingness. Don’t show off your badass side too much and it will be that much more impressive when you do. The kindhearted lion is a rare and wanted beast.
Display Masculine Sexuality Without Apology
You are an adult male. Embrace your masculinity. Don’t hide your attraction to women. Be classy and respectful but express your feelings as a man. Maintain a sexual undertone in a happy, outward, flirty, fun way.
Show Strong Self-Identity With Direction
Think independently, take charge of your life, know what you want, and go after it. Women seek men who are independent, goal-oriented, confident, and driven. Always learn and strive to improve mentally, physically, and spiritually. Follow your inner compass, and strive for excellence in all you do. Carving your own path and working towards the best version of yourself is attractive to women.
Be Approachable Yet Challenging
Be friendly, smiling and approachable, yet hard to feel in. Women want a man who knows what he wants, is selective, and presents a challenge. Don’t be needy for companionship, but select women that reach your standards. “Be able and willing to talk to anyone in a fun, engaging manner- but chase after no one.” The motto of a desired man.
Radiate Calm, In-Control, Positivity
No matter what life throws at you, roll with it and stay positive. Be the man that always lands on his feet. Women want a guy who calmly and confidently handles life’s challenges. Keep moments of doubt and frustration private. Move slower, talk slower, smile from within, and hold eye contact.
