Love Matters Flashcards
Chapter 14
What advantages does being attractive has ?
- getting better grades
- being seen as more just
- having an advantage in court
Meta analysis
- analysis of several studies related to the same topic
evolutionary social psychology
- relationships can only be understood in terms of evolution.
What is the good genes theory ?
- fertility –> when women are about to ovulate they prefer men that are competitive . For langterm they look after a good father and care taker, with financial success.
- seeing red–> red is sexual appealing to men , signals redyness for pairing in nature.
- hourglass figure –> favourite figure of males on women , signals good health
good genes theory: we look for partners with a healthy appearance that indicate good genes.
Average effect
- Humans like average faces more than those that are more unusual
What are the main factors when it comes to choosing a partner ?
- warmth - trustworthiness and showing that they care and like to be intimate
- attractiveness and health
- being liked by others and being financially sound
What increases liking ?
- Proximity , Familiarity and Attitude Similarity, personality , cultural stereotypes , assortative mating , self disclosure and trust ,
How do you call it if an attitude is quite similar to yours and that makes the other person attractive ?
- similarity of attitudes
What the hell is assortative mating?
- people choose their partner because of having several characteristics in common.
What personal characteristics play a role in attraction and forming friendships?
- having a desirable personality
- self disclosure = opening up to someone about intimate topics .
How much do cultural stereotypes have an influence on attractiveness?
- in North America people prefer the strong , assertive and dominant personalities - individualistic
- in eastern cultures they prefer the traits: honest, sensitive , trustworthy
–> there is a general consent about some traits that are appealing to most of the cultures
How is there a connection to Pavlovs dogs and the reinforcement approach?
- same principle
- we tend to like people more if we associate and connect a positive event , feeling with them . If we feel something positive and they are around we tend to like them .
need to affiliate
- the urge to make contact and to form connection with other people .
Instinct
- innate drive genetically inherited
Isolation and anxiety - social comparison theory
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