LESSON NINE PLEASING PERSONALITY Flashcards
What is an ATTRACTIVE personality?
A personality that attracts
It is a combination of characteristics and appearances that distinguish a person.
What are the components that constitute your personality?
- Clothes you wear
- Lines in your face
- Tone of your voice
- Thoughts you think
- Character developed by those thoughts
Which part of your personality is most important?
The part represented by your character
This part is not visible and is crucial for attractiveness.
What impact does your outward appearance have on others?
People form first impressions based on it.
How can the manner of shaking hands influence perceptions?
It can attract or repel those you interact with.
What is personal magnetism?
The vitality of your body that constitutes an important part of your personality.
What can make your personality always attract others?
Taking a keen heart-interest in the other fellow’s ‘game’ in life.
What did the old lady use to attract the speaker’s attention?
- A sweet smile
- A magnetic handshake
What was the effect of the old lady’s smile and handshake?
It disarmed the speaker and made him a ‘willing victim’.
What did the old lady say that captivated the speaker?
She thought he was doing the most wonderful work of any man in the world today.
What was the main purpose of the old lady’s visit?
To sell books, but she ended up selling the speaker on himself.
What is the significance of listening to others in sales?
People will listen intently to those who talk about what lies closest to their hearts.
True or False: The newly made salesman was initially a successful seller.
False
He had never tried to sell securities before.
What strategy did the newly made salesman use to connect with the artist?
He talked about the artist’s work rather than his own business.
What was the result of the newly made salesman’s approach?
The artist brought up the subject of securities himself.
Fill in the blank: The first impression people form is often based on _______.
[outward appearance]
What did the newly made salesman do to make the artist feel valued?
Expressed genuine interest in the artist’s work.
What lesson can be learned from the old lady’s interaction with the speaker?
The importance of making a personal connection before trying to sell something.
What did the old lady ultimately sell to the speaker?
Herself
She effectively made a connection before discussing her products.
What did the master salesman sell the artist?
He sold him his own picture which he was painting on his own canvas.
The securities were just an incident in the transaction.
What was the artist’s initial reaction to the other salesmen from the firm?
He found them annoying and had to ask one to leave.
The artist mentioned Mr. Perkins as one of the salesmen who annoyed him.
How did the newly made salesman distinguish himself from others?
By presenting the matter differently and showing genuine interest in the artist’s work.
This approach led to a successful sale.
What was the commission earned by the newly made salesman in his first month?
$7,900.00.
He led the next highest man by more than double.
What is emphasized about the principles of success throughout the course?
They are not new and have been available to all for ages.
The principles are as old as civilization itself.