Lesson 2: Mate Selection Theories Flashcards
1
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name the mate selection theories
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- evolutionary psychology
- social homogamy
- ideal mate
- fair exchange
2
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evolutionary psychology
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- motivated to start family = find qualities percieved as healthy/fertile nd who they can have kids w/
- women invest more in parenting (pregnancy) = more selective in mates to ensure fathers stay
- men likely to use short-term mating strategies to increase reproductive success nd continue human race
3
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wht do women want according to evolutionary psychology? (8)
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- resources
- status
- wealth
- protection
- committed
- hardworking/determined
- older
- strong/aggressive
4
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wht do men want according to evolutionary psychology?
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- fertility/physically healthy
- younger
- hourglass figure
- shiny hair
- clear skin
5
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example of evolutionary psychology
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- casual physical relationships
- arranged marriage
6
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social homogamy
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- ppl select partners based on similarities
- ppl tend to meet potential partners in social circles
- sameness ensures compatibility/understanding of each other
7
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what factors might be considered in social homogamy (8)
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- appearance
- race
- education
- economic status
- age
- work
- religion
- neighbourhood
8
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why is social homogamy good
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- share resources better
- less conflict over values/expectation differences
- raise children easily as per cultural expectations
9
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ideal mate
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- ppl attracted to individuals tht fit their mold of ideal mate (image of perf. partner)
- shaped by early life experiences: qualities of fam members, social influences (social media), and cultural ideas (beauty/wealth)
- negative dating experiences help identify deal breakers
10
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social homogamy example
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- dating a classmate
- arranged marriage for culture
11
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ideal mate example
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- online datin
12
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fair exchange
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- ppl drawn to partners who provide something in return
- done by evaluating wht each person brings to relationhip to ensure equity/balance
- supports “opposites attract”
13
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benefit of fair exchange
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enhances attraction/relationship stability due to mutual exchange
14
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example of fair exchange
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- dating an ex (compromise)
- dating a friend