Lecture 7: Emotional Development Flashcards
emotion
a complex phenomenon that includes a subjective feeling, along with physiological changes (heartbeat), behavior (shutting the door), and cognitive assessment (justifying your emotion)
affect
a positive or negative feeling state that can be more or less intense
mood
a diffuse (temporary) affective state that either has no object (in contrast to an emotion) and/or generalizes beyond its original object
subjective well-being
a term used to describe happiness
- a cognitive evaluation combined with affective evaluations
primary emotions
emotions which can already be observed within the first 6 months
- satisfaction, interest, distress
- later changes to pleasure, surprise, disgust, sadness, anger, and fear
self-aware emotions
emotions displayed when a child is 1.5 years old
- shame, pride, regret
social referencing
young children adopting their parents’ emotions
rules for expressing emotions
culture-specific rules about how you should and should not express emotions in certain circumstances
socio-emotional selectivity theory
since elderly have less time to live, they focus mainly on fulfilling emotional needs
positive effect
older adults pay more attention to positive information and remember it better
emotions in babies
- social referencing
- initially have simple expressions that later become more complex
- by 1 year, they can distance themselves from unpleasant events and seek comfort
- 18-24 months, they can gain control over what upsets them and deal with it by distracting themselves
emotions in early childhood
- improvement in emotional competence during kindergarten and school age
- better understanding of emotions
- better emotion regulation skills
- learning emotional display rules
individualistic vs collectivistic cultures’ emotional display rules
- individualistic cultures: encourage of open expression of emotions
- collectivistic cultures: suppress self-focused emotions, encouragement of expression of other-focused emotions (e.g. empathy or shame)
emotions in middle and late childhood
- improved emotional understanding
- greater ability to understand complex emotions
- rely less on reactions from others
- mental time travel
- improved suppression and hiding of emotions
- much more emotion regulation through conditioning
mental time travel
children anticipate and recall cognitive and emotional aspects of events, and there is an improvement in the understanding of emotions
emotions in puberty
- more extreme fluctuations in emotions
- potential ineffective emotion regulation due to difficulties at school, lower level of moral development, not able to deal adequately with stress and difficulties in relationships with peers
emotional choices during adolescence and beyond
- behavioral discovery
- goals are to broaden horizons, acquire knowledge, meet new people, and take risks
- efforts to create a lifestyle that is emotionally satisfying, predictable, and manageable
behavioral discovery
gathering information in preparation for a future in which it may be needed
social priorities
as people get older social priorities change
- until young adulthood, people are preoccupied with leaving attachment figures and want to meet new people
- when life goals are achieved, people focus on the family and friends they have and are less interested in making new contacts
paradox of well-being
the complex fact that happiness, optimism, and satisfaction with life rise sharply in later life
causes of the paradox of well-being
- older people prioritize positive states of mind (positivity bias)
- watching time fly by can stimulate flow, because one still wants to accomplish meaningful actions in the world
- elderly people have less stressful lives, as they no longer have to look after children, or worry about work, and people are often nicer to older people
integrity
according to Erikson, integrity is the primary task in late adulthood
- one must look back on life and be satisfied with what one has done in the past
conflict-avoiding behavior
older adults prefer to use disengagement strategies to reduce emotional stress
- they ignore or avoid conflict situations (do not confront others)
- feel less emotionally disturbed by the use of disengagement strategies
better regulation of negative emotions
older adults can exit negative emotional states more quickly, are less emotionally reactive to stressors, use less destructive strategies to resolve conflicts, and find negative interpersonal situations less stressful