Lecture 12: Family Flashcards
family system theory
assumes that the family is a system in which all parts influence each other
- dynamic system that adapts to changes in the environment
traditional nuclear family
consists of a father, mother, and at least one child
co-parenting
the ways in which two parents coordinate parenting
family life cycle
a sequence of changes in family composition, roles, relationships, and developmental tasks
- not only is the family a system that changes, but the world it lives in changes too
social changes taking place
- more single adults
- more delayed marriages
- more unmarried parents
- fewer children within families
- more working mothers
- more divorces
- etc.
parents indirect effect
parents have an indirect effect on their children by influencing their partner’s behavior
- direct effect occurs when the mother or father directly influences the baby’s development
- indirect effect occurs when the relationship between 2 family members is influenced by a third family member
parental acceptance-responsiveness
refers to the extent to which parents are warm, supporting, and sensitive to their children and offer them affection
parental demanding-control
refers to how much control the parent wants to have over the choices the child makes
- monitor the child strongly and have many strict rules
4 parenting styles
- authoritarian parenting
- authoritative parenting
- permissive parenting
- neglectful parenting
authoritarian parenting
a restrictive parenting style, where parents are demanding and controlling, not very accepting and responsive
- many rules, demand a lot of obedience, and rely on power relations
authoritative parenting
these parents are more flexible, have reasonable demands but are also controlling, but are also sensitive towards their children
- clear consistent rules, but also explain the rules and involve their children
- show respect for their child
permissive parenting
high degree of acceptance and responsiveness, and few demands and control
- very focused on their children, have few rules and make few demands
- encourage children to express their feelings and impulses
neglectful parenting
there is little acceptance-responsiveness and little demanding-control
- do not really care for their children and can be hostile
- become overwhelmed by their own problems that they don’t have energy to show love
- creates the worst developmental outcomes for children
SES impact on parenting
parents with lower SES show a more authoritarian parenting style
explanations for why differences in SES cause differences in parenting styles
- financial stress
- investment in resources
- cultural values and socialization goals