Learning activity 1 Flashcards
Why we communicate: physical needs
It appears that a life that includes positive relationships leads to better health. Socializing for 10 minutes a day, for example, improves memory and boosts intellectual function, 10 and stress hormones decline the more often people hear expressions of affection.
Why we communicate: identity needs
we learn who we are and gain our sense of identity through interactions with others. Learning if we’re intelligent, creative, skilled, or inept does not come from looking in the mirror but from seeing how others react to us.
Why we communicate: social needs
Communication also satisfies a whole range of social needs that include pleasure, affection, companionship, escape, relaxation, and control. Research suggests a strong link between effective interpersonal communication and happiness.
Why we communicate: practical goals
communication is used most often to satisfy our instrumental goals; goals aimed at getting things done. For example, you use communication to tell the hairstylist to take just a little off the sides or to negotiate household duties with a roommate.
The process of communication: Linear view
a message flows from the sender to the receiver. Then the receiver becomes the sender and responds. This back-and-forth approach was referred to a linear communication model.
The process of communication: transactional view
The transactional communication model expands the linear model to better capture the complicated nature of human communication. Transactional communication model: A characterization of communication as the simultaneous sending and receiving of messages in an ongoing, irreversible process.
Communication principles: Can be intentional or unintentional
Some communication is clearly intentional: You plan your words carefully before asking for a big favour or offering criticism. In addition, we unintentionally send nonverbal messages. You might not be aware of your sour expression or sigh of boredom, but others see and hear them, nonetheless.
Communication principles: communication is irreversible
If you have ever said something and regretted it immediately, then you know that communication is irreversible.
Communication principles: it is impossible not to communicate
We never stop communicating because we constantly send nonverbal messages through our facial expressions, posture, age, ethnic group, clothing, and so forth.
Communication principles: communication is unrepeatable
Because communication is an ongoing process, it is impossible to repeat an event. A certain smile that worked well when you met a stranger last week might not work with one you encounter tomorrow
Communication principles: Communication has content and relational dimensions
the content dimension: A message that communicates information about the subject being discussed. And the relational dimension is a message that expresses the social relationship between two or more individuals.
Communication misconceptions: More communication is always better
Sometimes excessive communication is unproductive, like when two people “talk a problem to death” without making progress.
Communication misconceptions: meaning is in words
what makes perfect sense to you can be interpreted in entirely different ways by others.
Communication misconceptions: Successful communication always involves shared understanding
We don’t always want our communication to be clear and concise. For example, if you think that a friend has a grotesque tattoo and you’re asked what you think, then giving a vague, unclear response may be better.
Communication misconceptions: A single person or event causes another’s reaction:
If you lose your temper and say something to a friend that you immediately regret, your friend’s reaction depends on a host of events besides your unjustified remark. These include her frame of mind (uptight or mellow), her personality (judgmental or forgiving), her relational history (supportive or hostile), and so forth.
