Exam2:Divorce Flashcards
One partner announces the relationship is over
Fait accompli
Couple discusses problems in their relationship, decide to split up
State-of-the-relationship talk
Intense argument started by one partner which is used as an “excuse” to break up
Attribution conflict
Both see irreconcilable problems in the relationship, agree to end it. Go into conv knowing you’re going to end relationship at end of conv
Negotiated farewell
Gradually spend less time together, drift apart
Withdrawal
One partner says he/she wants the relationship to be less close or intense when actually he/she wants the relationship to end
Pseudo-deescalation
One partner acts in a more costly and less rewarding manner, trying to get the other to break it off
Cost escalation
Both partners know it’s over but neither will talk about it
Fading away
___% drop in Divorce Rate from 1980 to 2015
25%
___% of adult Americans list their marital status as “divorced”
10%
How is the incorrect divorce rate calculated?
2 million marriages and 1 million divorces per year…looks like 50% but don’t know if the 1 million divorced is part of the 2 million that got married the same year
Actual divorce rate is about ___% ; 3 out of 5 marriages will NOT end in divorce.
40%
More than ___ of all divorces are in the first 5 years of marriage
Half
Consequence of divorce; if children: drop in standard of living if she gets custody and child support (31% drop for her and 22% drop him), depletes financial reserves, property often divided communally. No children: man standard of living goes up but assets often depleted, woman standard of living goes down
Financial consequences of divorce
Consequence of divorce; decrease in health, happiness; increase in suicidal tendencies, stress, depression, feelings of failure
Health, Emotional, and Psychological consequences of divorce