Exam 6-10 Flashcards
Romantic love: “My lover fits my ideal”
eros
Game playing love “I keep my lover up in the air about my commitment
Ludus
Logical love “I consider a lover’s potential in life before commitment”
Pragma
Possessive, excited love “I get so excited about my love I can’t sleep”
Mania
Selfless love “I would do anything to help my love”
Agape
The experience of warmth toward another person that arises from feelings of closeness and contentedness to the other. Desire to give and receive emotional support and to share one’s innermost thoughts with the other
Intimacy
An intense romantic or sexual desires for another person, which is accompanied by physiological arousal
passion
Commitment
A component of love that involves commitment to maintain the relationship though good times and bad
Sternberg’s model: what is just intamacy
=liking
Sternberg’s model: what is just commitment
=empty love
Sternberg’s model: what is just passion
Infatuation
Sternberg’s model: Intamacy+commitment=
Companionate love
Sternberg’s model: Passion+commitment=
Fatuous love
Sternberg’s model: Intimacy+passion=
Romantic love
Intimacy+Passion+Commitment
Consummate Love
Four Phase MJ Sexual Response Cycle
Excitement, Plateau, Orgasmic, Resolution (+Refractory period for males)
Kaplan’s Three Stages of Sexual Response
(doesn’t neccecarlily have to be in this order) 1. desire, 2. excitement 3. orgasm
T/F Orgasm increases the chance of concieving
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Poppers
- aphrodisac
- used by mostly gays
- should only be used for medical reasons, not for sex
Viagra, Cialis and levita
- actually not an aphrodisiac but does facilitate erection
- mostly for men
Anaphrodisacs
- dampen sexual arousal
Primary erogenous zones
erotically sensitive because they are rich with nerve endings:
- genitals, inner thighs, perineum, buttocks, anus, breasts, ears, mouth, lips, tounge, theck, naval armpits
Secondary Erogenous
Aroused through association with sexual stimulation
Excitement Phase male
– Erections in men
– Muscle tension and increases in heart rate in both females and
males
– Sex flush is a reddish rash that may appear on the chest or
breasts late in the excitement phase
Plateau Phase male
– Increases in vasocongestion, muscle tension, heart rate, and
blood pressure
– Rapid breathing and heart rate, blood pressure increases
Orgasmic Phase male
Male orgasms consist of two stages of muscular contractions
1st stage—contractions push seminal fluid into urethral bulb
2nd stage—ejaculation
– In both men and women, muscle spasms occur throughout the
body, and blood pressure and heart rate peak
– Orgasm is a subjective experience