Creating Belonging Flashcards
What are 2 necessary comments of flourishing relationships?
Attachment and love
What must love and attachment be accompanied by?
Purpose positive relationship behaviours
Who identified infant attachment?
John Bowlby
What are 2 parental behaviours identified by Bowlby?
- Maladaptive: chaotic, unplanned attempts to meed a child needs
- Adaptive: responsive to a childs behavioural cues
What is the primary function of infant attachment?
Protection and emotional security
What id insecure attachment a precursor of?
Numerous developmental struggles
What are the 2 infant attachment types?
- Secure
- Insecure-avoidant
- Insecure-resistant/ambivalent
What is secure attachment?
Characterised by a balance between exploration of the environment and contact with the caregiver
What is incsecure-avoidant attachment?
They avoid the caregiver when they are reintroduced
What is incsecure-resistant attachement?
Child demonstrates hostility towards caregiver whilst wanting to be held at the same time
What are the 3 romantic relationship types of attachment found by Hazan and Shaver?
- Secure
- Avoidant
- Anxious
What are the 2 types of adult avoidance in attachment?
- Dismissive and fearful
What is the adult secure attachment type?
- Easy to be emotionally close to other
- Can depend on others & vice versa
- Don’t worry about being alone
What is the adult dismissing attachment type?
- Comfortable without close emotional relationships
- Important to deel independent and self sufficient
- Prefer to not depend on others
What is the adult preoccupied type of attachment?
- Completely emotionally intimate with others
- Often find other are reluctant to get as close
- Worry sometimes worry that others don’t value me as much as I value them