Chapter 9- Relationships

Question 1

Conflict

Answer 1

expressed struggle(both must know about it) of interconnected parties(behavior of one party must affect other) who have different goals(clash of goals) and perceived interference from both parties(one or other must interfere)

Question 2

Relationship Dialectic

Answer 2

tension that arises from contradictory needs to push and pull us in opposite directions at the same time in our relationships with others
fundamental source of conflict

Question 3

Connection-Autonomy

Answer 3

desire to come together with someone else(connect) but remain independent(autonomous)
too much emphasis on either hurts relationships

Question 4

Predictability-Novelty

Answer 4

desire for both change and stability

have to walk fine line

Question 5

Openness-Closedness

Answer 5

asks how much self disclosure and openness is enough