Chapter 2: Self and Perception (Lesson 12, 13 & 14) Flashcards

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Self-Awareness

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conscious knowledge of one’s character, emotions, values, assumptions, motives, and desired

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What does self awareness allow you to do?

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-see other’s perspectives
-practice self-control
-have pride in yourself
-have general self-esteem

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Ways to increase self-awareness:

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-self-reflection
-introspection
-mindfulness
-meditation

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Challenging Yourseld

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-step beyond your comfort zone and experience new things
-promotes self-discovery and growth

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Self-Concept

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the overall idea of who a person thinks they are (ie. beliefs and values)

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Self-knowledge

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-a dimension of self-concept
-“who am I?”

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Self-expectation

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-a dimension of self-concept
-“who or what do I want to be?”

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Self-evaluation

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-a dimension of self-concept
-“how well do I like myself?”

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Social Self

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-family, friends, coworkers, sports, online presence

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Spiritual Self

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religion, yoga

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Material Self

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heirlooms, mental health

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Subjective Self

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how you describe yourself

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Objective Self

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how others describe you

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Why is “tell me about yourself” not constructive?

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-self-concept is influence by context and personality more than anything

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Reflected Appraisal

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-thoughts from others that feed into our self-concept

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Significant Others

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-those whose reflections we consider essential

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Social Comparisons

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-based on superiority/inferiority and similarity/difference
-how we compare ourselves to other people

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Superiority/Inferiority

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-attractiveness
-intelligence
-athletic ability

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Similarities/Differences

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-age
-personality
-popularity
-interests
-culture

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Self-concept is based on ____, ____, and _____

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attitudes, beliefs, and values

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Attitude

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your immediate disposition toward a concept or an object

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Beliefs

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ideas based on previous experiences and convictions not necessarily logic or fact

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Values

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core concepts and ideas about what we consider good or bad, right or wrong, and what is worth making a sacrifice for

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Self-Esteem

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refers to the judgements and evaluations we make about our self concept

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Self-Efficacy

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people’s judgments about their ability to perform as task within a specific context

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Self-discrepancy Theory

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people have beliefs about and expectations for their actual and potential selves that don’t always match up with what they experience

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What makes up self-concept?

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the different “selves” such as actual, ideal, and ought

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Actual Self

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attributes you or someone else believes you possess

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Ideal Self

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attributes you or someone else would like you to possess

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Ought Self

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attributes you or someone else believes you should possess

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Actual vs. Own Ideals

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we feels we are not obtaining our desires and hope, leading to disappointment, dissatisfaction, and frustration

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Actual vs. Others’ Ideals

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we have an overall feeling that we are not obtaining others’ desires and hopes for us, leads to shame and embarassment

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Actual vs. Others’ Ought

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we feel we are not meeting what others see as our duties and obligations, leads to agitation and fear of punishment

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Actual vs. Own Ought

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we feel we are not meeting our duties and obligations which can lead to feeling we have fallen short of our moral standards

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How do social and family influences shape our self-perception?

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-feedback from others
-extrinsic motivations
-communication patterns (ie. abuse)

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How does culture affect self-perception?

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-self-enhancement of our desirable qualities
-competition
-wealth vs. modesty
-race
-gender

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How does media influence self-perception?

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-unrealistic standards of beauty
-shows us what is unacceptable, acceptable, valued in society

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Self-fulfilling Prophecy

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occurs when your expectation causes something to happen (ie. hearing about a rude colleague and unintentionally causing a rude reaction from them)

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Self-disclosure

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the purposeful disclosure of personal information to another person

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Social Penetration Theory

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as we get to know someone we engage in a reciprocal process of self-disclosure

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Social Comparison Theory

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we evaluate ourselves based on how we compare with others

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Johari Window

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-a model that helps to explain and improve self-awareness and self-communication
-uses a four quadrant model to represent aspects of self that are know and unknown to us

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First Quadrant of Johari Window “Open area”

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-lower left hand corner
-ideas KNOWN to self and others
-name, hobbies, etc.

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Second Quadrant of Johari Window “Blind area”

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-upper left hand corner
-ideas unknown to self but known to others
-gained from perception checking and feedback
-ie. being a pushover but not knowing it

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Third Quadrant of Johari Window “Unknown area”

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-upper right-hand corner
-ideas unknown to self and others
-have not happened yet so outcome is unknown
-ie. how you will cope with the loss of a parent who is still living

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Fourth Quadrant of Johari Window “Hidden area”

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-lower right hand corner
-known to self but not others
-ie. trauma, insecurities, etc.

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What are the four categories of self-disclosure?

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-observations (what we have done and experienced)
-thoughts
-feelings
-needs

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Self-disclosure Cycle

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individual self discloses, recipient reacts, reaction is processed by discloser

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Techniques for avoiding self-disclosure:

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  1. deception - lying to avoid conflict
  2. equivocate - don’t answer question, restate what they said differently
  3. hint - indirect or face-saving comments
  4. silence
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3 Categories of Impression Management

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  1. manner
  2. appearance
  3. setting
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Manner

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our words and actions

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Appearance

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our clothing, hair, makeup

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Setting

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how we decorate homes, offices, cars

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Perception

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the process of attending to, organizing, interpreting information via 5 senses

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Attending

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1st step of the perception process: selecting the information you want to focus on
ie. extreme, different, repeating, motivated, emotional state

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Perceptual Organizing

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how we make sense of something in our brain

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4 Schemes used to organize perceptions

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  1. physical construct
  2. social position
  3. behaviour
  4. emotions
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Interpretation

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assign meaning to our experiences using mental schemata

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Factors that Influence Interpretations

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-personal experience
-involvement
-expectations
-assumptions
-relational satisfaction
-past experiences
-knowledge

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How do individualistic cultures see self?

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-independence
-take care of self
-flexible group memberships
-individual achievement awarded
-autonomy, equality

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How do collectivistic cultures see self?

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-we; people belong to groups
-family before self
-belong to permanent groups
-group goal contribution
-duty, order, hierarchy

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What are the influences of gender?

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gender shapes how others communicate with use due to different expectations and acceptable behaviours

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What does low self-esteem look like?

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-need positive experiences to counter negative thoughts
-views life negatively
-unmotivated
-unrealistic expectations
-poor coping
-unhealthy relationships

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What does high self-esteem look like?

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-positive thoughts
-assertive when expressing needs/opinions
-secure and honest relationships
-realistic expectations
-resilient in coping

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Internal Attributions

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connect the cause of behaviours to personal aspects (ie. personality traits)

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External Attributions

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connect the cause of behaviours to situational factors

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Self-serving Bias

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-a perceptual error through which we attribute the cause of our successes to internal personal factors while attributing our failures to external factors beyond our control

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Primary Effect

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-makes first impressions emduring by leading us to place more value on the first information we learn about a person

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Recency Effect

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-puts more weight on most recent impressions of a person’s communication over earlier impressions

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Physiological Influences of Perception

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-senses
-age
-health
-hunger
-biological cycles

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Psychological Influences on Perception

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-mood
-self-concept

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Social Influences on Self-perception

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-sex and gender roles
-occupational roles
-standpoint theory

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Standpoint Theory

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states that your perspective is influenced by where you stand

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Halo Effect

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occurs when initial positive perceptions lead us to view later interactions as positive

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Horn Effect

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occurs when initial negative perceptions lead us to view later interactions as negative

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Self-fulfilling Prophecies

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thoughts and action patterns in which a persons’s false belief triggers a behaviour that makes something come true

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Prejudice

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negative feelings or attitudes toward people based on their identity

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Emotional Intelligence

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ability to understand, use, and manage your emotions positively to relieve stress, communicate, overcome challenges and conflict

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Perception Checking

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a strategy to help us monitor our reactions to perceptions about people and communications