Chapter 12: Family influences Flashcards
what is family
At least one adult who is related to the child by:
—Birth
—Marriage (or common-law)
—Adoption
—Foster status
AND
The adult(s) is responsible for providing:
—Basic necessities
—Love and support
—Safety and stability
—Opportunities for learning
Ways family structure can change
Births
Deaths
Divorce
Remarriage
family structure
Number of people and relationships amongst people living in a household
If asked to describe the typical family structure, most Canadians would list a mother and a father who are married to each other and one or more children
Societal Changes in Family Structure
More children live with lone or unmarried parents
First-time parents are older
More children live with multigenerational and skip generational households
families are smaller
family structures are more fluid
Societal Changes in Family Structure: first time parents are older
Older parents have more education, higher-status occupations, and higher incomes. Their children are more likely to be planned and have fewer children overall. They are less likely to get divorced within 10 years
Decrease in teen pregnancy
More emotionally stable
Societal Changes in Family Structure: More children live with lone or unmarried parents
Though most kids live with both parents
—Newcomers to Canada are less likely to be divorced or have children after marriage
Lone parents tend to be the father now
—More financial strain and less time spent with the child
—Lone parents have less time to do everything they need to, so they read less to their children
Children who live with only their mother are more likely to live in poverty than if with both parents
Societal Changes in Family Structure: families are smaller
Due to older parents
Higher access to birth control
Societal Changes in Family Structure: Family structures are more fluid
More divorce
The more family structure transitions a child undergoes, the more instability the child experiences, which can lead to the development of behaviour problems
changes in the presence of a parent in the home have not been linked to worse health or less engagement in school
issues with grandparents raising their grandchildren
Grandparent-headed families tend to be lower-income
Grandparents get less support from their own peers
Children raised by grandparents are more likely to experience emotional and behavioural problems
Multigenerational households
Children live with their parents and at least one grandparent
skip generational households
Grandparents are primary caregivers
impacts of family structures
same sex parents
divorced parents
step-parents
divorced parents key info
Positive is parents no longer arguing every day
Challenge may be moving to new city/ school
Sometimes conflict continues through co-parenting
the parenting style of newly divorced parents, compared with that of parents in two-parent families, often tends to be characterized by more irritability and coercion and by less warmth, emotional availability, consistency, and supervision of children
Can cause financial hardship
children of divorce are at greater risk for a variety of short-term and long-term problems than are children who live with both biological parents.
Children may be forced to act asa mediators between their parents
Adolescents who feel caught up in their divorced parents’ conflict are at increased risk for having mental health problems and behaviour problems
same sex parents key info
Second parent adoption
—Formally adopting a child
Behaviour and mental health of kids in same sex households is the same as opposite sex households
children with LGBTQ+ parents actually had better psychological adjustment and higher levels of parent–child relationship quality compared to children with different-sex parents
step parents key points
Positive that child can have an extra trusted adult in their life
Health of step family is dictated by step parents relationship with the other parent
A parent’s remarriage often leads to less frequent contact with the noncustodial parent, which can be stressful to the child and can lead to difficulties adjusting to the stepparent
A custodial parent’s remarriage can have a positive effect on family income, although if a stepparent is supporting their own biological children from a previous marriage, that impact will be diminished
positive relationships with each parent—the custodial biological parent, the noncustodial biological parent, and the stepparent—can have independent positive benefits on children, including reduced stress
Conflict between stepfathers and stepchildren tends to be greater than that between fathers and their biological offspring
Similarly, stepmothers generally have more difficulty with their stepchildren than do stepfathers, probably because fathers tend to expect step mother to take an active role in parenting, which the children reject
Children of both sexes are most adjusted in stepfamilies when the stepparent is warm and involved and supports the custodial parent’s decisions rather than trying to exert control over the children independently
step parents: simple
New step parent is joining family without any children
step parents: complex/ blended
Stepparent is bringing their own children too
Can have financial strain
Parenting: A public Health Advisory (Stechyson, 2024): Public health advisory issued about the impact of modern stresses on parent’s mental health
Old stressors
Protecting children from harm and worrying about finances
Parenting: A public Health Advisory (Stechyson, 2024): Has parenting really become harder for modern generations OR is it…
Not more stress/challenges, but just a different kind
More time spent with children
More self-awareness
More openness … or something else.
Parenting: A public Health Advisory (Stechyson, 2024): Public health advisory issued about the impact of modern stresses on parent’s mental health
new stressors include
Social media, the youth mental health crisis, and increased financial strain as the cost of some necessities like childcare have boomed
Guilt and shame becoming pervasive, leading parents to hide their struggles
Very stressed
Comparison culture due to social media creative unrealistic expectations for parents to pursue
Higher maternal depression, cortisol levels, envy, and anxiety in mothers specifically
New pressures
Parenting: A public Health Advisory (Stechyson, 2024): Public health advisory issued about the impact of modern stresses on parent’s mental health
new pressures
More women working full time, but women are still consistently taking on a larger share of unpaid household chores like housework and childcare, but parents are also spending more time with their kids than previous generations
Society hasn’t been successful in supporting parenting young children, children and their noise aren’t welcome in lots of places and school days are shorter than the average work day
Family dynamics
how family members interact through various relationships: parent with child, parent with parent, and sibling with sibling
socialization
the process through which children acquire the values, standards, skills, knowledge, and behaviours that are regarded as appropriate for their present and future roles in their particular culture
discipline
when it is effective
when it is most effective (internalization)
the set of strategies and behaviours parents use to teach children how to behave appropriately
Effective when child stops the unwanted action, and ideally engages in a preferred behaviour
Considered most effective if it leads to a permanent change in the child’s behaviour because the child has learned and accepted the reasons for desired behaviour
—internalization